What do you find attractive in a woman/or guys when you first meet them???

[dreamgirl84]

I have to agree, at first its all about looks. He must be tall, have great teeth, and show no signs of balding. He doesnt need a sixpack, but nothing hanging over his belt.

[Leblanc77]

sex-appeal, that "je ne se qua" that sends chills through your body - looks are secondary

[Toxiclove]

Originally Posted by Leblanc77

sex-appeal, that "je ne se qua" that sends chills through your body - looks are secondary

I agree. Some people just have it. I can't describe it, but you are right looks are secondary although to an extent important too.

[paganmama80]

Originally Posted by blueflower14

Is it looks, sense of humor, personality??? Share your insights..thanks

For both of them eyes....and butts hehehe....for girls her curves..,and for guys their legs.

[mark303]

Physically, i go for brunettes with blue, or green eyes, and curvy bodies. If they can balance an attitude while still enjoying my company. i will fall in love with their face. Coincidentally, it's the quiet little women who want to be told what to do and what to think that i avoid like the plague. They make me feel like a cult leader and that's just creepy.