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I met this guy at work. At first I wasn't too interested in him because he's not my type physically. He's good looking, just not usually what I go for. But after talking to him a bit, he was just so sweet and friendly I decided to give him some more of my attention, and I'm finding that I could possibly like him.
I invited him out with some friends next week, because I'm hoping to get to know him better and see if there's any kind of connection. I'm usually not this forward, but he seems kind of shy and I know I may not see him again (do to work circumstances) so I figured, why not?
There are all these stories out there about women dating jerks. Does anyone have any good stories about nice, decent men?
Hmmm...well I think of myself as a nice decent guy, but I have to say it seems like jerks seem to do better than me a lot of the time, but I keep plugging away. Anyways, if you're into this guy then I would say go for it. I think sometimes we get too hung up on a "type" and when you do that you end up missing a connection with someone that could have been special.
Hmmm...well I think of myself as a nice decent guy, but I have to say it seems like jerks seem to do better than me a lot of the time, but I keep plugging away. Anyways, if you're into this guy then I would say go for it. I think sometimes we get too hung up on a "type" and when you do that you end up missing a connection with someone that could have been special.
I agree. Usually I date men who are artistic,intellectual, kind of edgy, but he's more down to earth and into sports. I have my doubts about whether there can be a connection since our personalities seem to be so different, but I figure its worth a try. Plus I think its kind of cute the way he seems kind of nervous around me.
I think I'm starting to reconsider whether "my type" is really for me. Maybe I need a simple guy.
I agree. Usually I date men who are artistic,intellectual, kind of edgy, but he's more down to earth and into sports. I have my doubts about whether there can be a connection since our personalities seem to be so different, but I figure its worth a try. Plus I think its kind of cute the way he seems kind of nervous around me.
I think I'm starting to reconsider whether "my type" is really for me. Maybe I need a simple guy.
Sure, well ask the dude out then and see what happens! Just take it slow and get to know each other. You may surprise yourself. Good luck!
I met this guy at work. At first I wasn't too interested in him because he's not my type physically. He's good looking, just not usually what I go for. But after talking to him a bit, he was just so sweet and friendly I decided to give him some more of my attention, and I'm finding that I could possibly like him.
I invited him out with some friends next week, because I'm hoping to get to know him better and see if there's any kind of connection. I'm usually not this forward, but he seems kind of shy and I know I may not see him again (do to work circumstances) so I figured, why not?
There are all these stories out there about women dating jerks. Does anyone have any good stories about nice, decent men?
Me! I didn't ever have a "type" per se but there was a couple of physical attributes I guess I was more attracted to. When I met my now SO, I think he wasn't my typical "bad boy" type (whatever that is LOL) and he was a little shy, reserved, conservative - so I thought. The more we talked, the more I found myself liking him and being attracted.
It wasn't long before we both admitted that we had feelings for each other and voila! Five and a half years later and going strong. He's a great guy, he's that guy that will stop to help the little old lady carry her bags and just a good guy all around. His friends love him, close to his Mom, everyone likes him and doesn't have a mean bone in his body. Very fine and upstanding man and I'm crazy about him!
I agree. Usually I date men who are artistic,intellectual, kind of edgy, but he's more down to earth and into sports. I have my doubts about whether there can be a connection since our personalities seem to be so different, but I figure its worth a try. Plus I think its kind of cute the way he seems kind of nervous around me.
I think I'm starting to reconsider whether "my type" is really for me. Maybe I need a simple guy.
This may be one of the wisest things I've ever seen in all the threads in all these forums.
There is NOTHING wrong with finding certain characteristics attractive in the opposite sex. All too often, however, we get fixated on those "qualities" to the point that we overlook horrible flaws OR build up the worth of those qualities in our minds, inflating them to unrealistic dimensions.
You GO, girl! Go for Mr. Nice. There's no guarantee it will work out, none at all -- but there's no guarantee it won't, either!
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