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I do not want to lower the boom on someone.. but pretty bluntly said.. she is probably not very interested in you.. From what you have said.. it doesnt sound like she really wants to have anything to do with you .. let alone someone else. I am not sure this is really just about you.. it appears this is about her.. and she isnt interested in anyone.
I am in the same boat as she is in.. I have had ladies text me and call me.. with me telling them thanks but no thanks and they continue to call and text me.. so then I ignore them. Truly it is against my whole being to ignore people.. but I tried to be polite and tell them.. thanks but no thanks.. so they leave me no choice. Truly it is not about them.. its about me and not wanting to be with anyone else. (I have had enough let downs from other people that I choose not to go into it anymore). So I think in this scenario that you describe .. she is also there. Take some advice. Move on and find someone who will be more responsive.. life with her may and could be hell... I am almost certain you can find someone else who will be more meaningful to you and appreciate you more then this person does. I mean seriously, dont get to where you appear to be groveling.. as we all know.. there is plenty of fish in those waters.. find the one that you like and that likes you back..