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Cheaters like Cats example are into the thrill of the affair. The risks, how much they can get away with under the noses of the VICTIMS. But unlike James Bond who practically always marches into the enemies lair and says I'm Bond, James Bond, they do it more sneakily by getting on the home PC at night chatting and then wipe the history. You just become Blofield and capture everything they typed last night!
And the old I'd leave her except,,insert excuse here is also standard. THEY NEVER LEAVE THEIR SPOUCE! When you catch them and OFFER TO PAY THEM TO GO, THEY RESIST!
I just found out a couple months ago that my husband of less than a year was cheating on me with some woman at his work. I had been suspecting for some time but I never had any real proof, it was heart breaking to feel that way but doubt myself so much at the same time, I knew in my heart and head that something was not the same but with out proof I could not just abandon our marriage. He would always have a good reason that was just plausible enough to make me doubt myself and even feel bad that I had questioned him incase I was way off track.
What if I was wrong? I wanted so bad to be wrong. I tried to find excuses for the signs that I saw but deep down I could not lie to myself anymore so I decided to take matters in to my own hands and find out for myself. I installed Mobile Spy Software (I got mine from spyonanymobile.com ) in to is cell phone and what I found out was the most painful heart shattering thing I could have ever imagined.
Yes he had been cheating on me. He had been cheating on me for some time. Even having sex at work! He had had conversations about me and how he wanted to leave me for her but had to wait for awhile so he could collect alimony (I make about 20 times more than what he does and his lifestyle raised considerably when he married me). He was telling her that if she loved him like she said she did she would wait to live with him for 5 years, In 5 years he said he could divorce me and get enough alimony to totally support them both. By monitoring his SMS messages (Text, Picture, & Video Messages) I read all this and more. Horrible details about there sex life and so much deception I could almost not believe what I was seeing. It was much more than I had suspected.
I was completely heart broken and so angry I was in a rage, I wanted to do so many horrible vindictive things to him my mind was racing. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done but some how I collected myself and kept my cool. I wanted to know more. I used Google maps to track his exact location and found out that the nights he had been “working late” he was actually at two different places, across town in bar district and not to far from there in a apartment building. Not where he said he was, and this was going on 4 or 5 times a week. I also found out that they talked on the phone for hours at a time and sent each other pornographic pictures and videos.
I was very sick about this but I was not going to be played for the fool. I gathered all the evidence I had collected and took it to my lawyer. He was very pleased I had made his case so easy for him, he said he would have no problem leaving with exactly what he came in to the marriage with which was absolutely NOTHING!
Our divorce is not final yet but it will be very soon and although he did try to sue me for alimony my lawyer assures me that be cause of the text message evidence I brought him he will not get one dime. I can use ever bit of evidence I gathered because I am the owner of his cell phone (just by being married I co-own anything of this nature).
This may be an advertisement, but I'm sure there plenty of stories like that out there. I think I'd want the proof myself, but I'm also conflicted on the matter of privacy. There are people out there abusing these tools.
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Instead of a keystroke program (they have programs that can detect a keystroke program), I would set up a webcam behind the computer with a view of the computer screen...
Is this for real or just a clever advertisement for "Mobile Spy Software"?
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Originally Posted by SifuPhil
The whole tone, structure and appearance of their website gets my BS radar going. It's too "cookie-cutter" - like a million other fly-by-night sites. They actually use the same template in a lot of cases.
Not to mention the probably illegal fact of phone-tapping without a court order and the admissibility in court of such a tap...I'm certainly not a lawyer, but it just smells to high heaven.
Amusing, though.
.....and almost cliche'.
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