I'm disgusted by how my friend flirts. (people, bf, like)

[The Homogenizer]

Originally Posted by lyra33

You are agreeing with her yet you are saying she is wrong?

Yeah. He can choose who his friends are but his friends' behavior is (are?) his business and she said the angry face could only be part of scorn.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by lyra33

Yet it seems as if he agrees with you that there's another reason why he keeps hanging out with her.

Oh, I hadn't noticed that. It's funny alright.

[The Homogenizer]

Originally Posted by lyra33

Yet it seems as if he agrees with you that there's another reason why he keeps hanging out with her.

Yeah but if he denies it, I'll give him the benefit.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by The Homogenizer

Yeah but if he denies it, I'll give him the benefit.

Ha-ha, as if everybody in his shoes isn't in the same denial.

[The Homogenizer]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Ha-ha, as if everybody in his shoes isn't in the same denial.

I don't know. I try not to judge.

[lyra33]

Originally Posted by The Homogenizer

Yeah. He can choose who his friends are but his friends' behavior is (are?) his business and she said the angry face could only be part of scorn.

But...if there's something more, as you suggest, maybe it is "angry face scorn?"

[The Homogenizer]

Originally Posted by lyra33

But...if there's something more, as you suggest, maybe it is "angry face scorn?"

I wish she'd said maybe instead of only.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by The Homogenizer

I wish she'd said maybe instead of only.

I've lived long enough to know when to say only!

[Yzette]

Originally Posted by Kinetic_A

She's the same age as I am. We're both 29 soon to be 30 in the coming year.

If you're 29, you're old enough to know how to disengage from a friendship and find people more to your liking. She is who she is and grousing about it is just wasted energy, so if you don't like her behavior, stop hanging out with her.

[Kinetic_A]

Originally Posted by The Homogenizer

If you say so but it seems to me that you'd stop being friends with her if that was the case.

Hope it works out for you.

Clearly you guys didn't read the original posting. I have never said that this was a serious problem and I wanted it fixed, nor was I stating that I wanted to be the one that wanted to be crudely flirted with. I'm just saying that the occasions that she has done it have never been this embarrassing. I was asking if anyone else has dealt with this. That was it.

Shes a good person until a potential bf or fb walks into the room that she likes, then the restraints go out the window. I'm just annoyed at the fact that she was doing this with other people around and they were looking at me like did she just say/do that?

So stop trying to make this into some 'other' story with some hidden agenda. Maybe I should stop talking and let you all assume whatever you want.