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Old 11-19-2010, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Miami
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I know this may be odd coming from a guy, but when my friend flirts with a guy shes thinks is cute, shes gets overly sexual with it. I mean last night, I was invited to hang out at a bar, and the first thing I hear out of her mouth the minute I sit down is f***ing, someone if you let them borrow you car or something. Basically if they're not banging you its a bad idea.

So that goes on for about 10mins and the guy of interest shows her his phone, which is a small simple thing, and then she comments on how its no bigger than 4 inches, and then proceeds to 'measure' the phone while holding her other hand next to it and begins jacking it off and saying how she had di**s bigger than that. I had to get up and walk away from it, and decided to go walk the dog(and mind you there are two other people at the table long with those 2).

After I come back from walking the dog, I hear her get explicit with the guy on how they aren't having sex yet or some other nonsense, and I was like, sorry guys, this is my cue to leave, I will catch you all later. I was maybe there for like 20mins total.

Anyone else experienced anything like that before? Or am I becoming a prude?
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:10 AM
 
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What's her number?

Jking.
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Heart of Oklahoma
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Haha wow - I think she is desperate to get banged. Was the guy she was talking to enjoying her company?
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Miami
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Haha wow - I think she is desperate to get banged. Was the guy she was talking to enjoying her company?
He stayed, so I guess so. Or maybe it was the alcohol. she even posted on fb how had a good time flirting....so she was pleased with herself.
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:16 AM
 
Location: NYC
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I know this may be odd coming from a guy, but when my friend flirts with a guy shes thinks is cute, shes gets overly sexual with it. I mean last night, I was invited to hang out at a bar, and the first thing I hear out of her mouth the minute I sit down is f***ing, someone if you let them borrow you car or something. Basically if they're not banging you its a bad idea.

So that goes on for about 10mins and the guy of interest shows her his phone, which is a small simple thing, and then she comments on how its no bigger than 4 inches, and then proceeds to 'measure' the phone while holding her other hand next to it and begins jacking it off and saying how she had di**s bigger than that. I had to get up and walk away from it, and decided to go walk the dog(and mind you there are two other people at the table long with those 2).

After I come back from walking the dog, I hear her get explicit with the guy on how they aren't having sex yet or some other nonsense, and I was like, sorry guys, this is my cue to leave, I will catch you all later. I was maybe there for like 20mins total.

Anyone else experienced anything like that before? Or am I becoming a prude?
She sounds young and insecure, thinking that conveying extreme sexuality/crassness will make her cool and one of the guys. (Does she belch loudly too?) If she's in her early 20s, its probably a phase of little consequence so long as she isn't a heavy drinker. If she's in her 30s or higher, her behavior is rather sad.
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:16 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I can see how your friend's behavior is embarassing because she's a bit over the top. Sounds like she's horny and looking to get laid........quickly. However, there are much more subtle ways to get your point across without looking like a tramp. Then again it may be the only way she knows how to communicate with other men but it won't do much for her rep so she needs to clean it up a bit and leave the freak talk for the bedroom or private whispers.
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:17 AM
 
Location: maryland
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No you aren't....while there is nothing wrong with some adult innuendo here and there she seems to be taking it to the trashy level.
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:20 AM
 
Location: maryland
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I can see how your friend's behavior is embarassing because she's a bit over the top. Sounds like she's horny and looking to get laid........quickly. However, there are much more subtle ways to get your point across without looking like a tramp. Then again it may be the only way she knows how to communicate with other men but it won't do much for her rep so she needs to clean it up a bit and leave the freak talk for the bedroom or private whispers.

The word horny rolls off your tongue like soft butter
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:23 AM
 
Location: Miami
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She's the same age as I am. We're both 29 soon to be 30 in the coming year.
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Old 11-19-2010, 10:27 AM
 
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am I becoming a prude?
Why aren't you messing around with her?
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