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Old 12-05-2010, 07:52 PM
 
Location: San Leandro
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I'm talking about someone who never even had a bf/gf in high school, or romantically kissed someone. Will their total lack of experience combined with their advanced age make their first relationship harder/more awkward, especially with the fears and hangups, or will it just take a bit longer? Even on cd I'm betting it's rare, lol, but does it largely depend on the person and WHY they've got to 25 in this condition? Yes, if you must know, I'm referring to yours truly. My main reasons are anxiety disorder, low self confidence and psychological issues relating to...private matters, lol.
yes.
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Old 12-05-2010, 07:57 PM
 
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awkward... definitely. but that all comes with having only made decisions your whole life based on your conscience, not being in a relationship for loneliness or to go with the crowd or any other reason but for love... and if the right person hadn't come along, you can't be to blame.

just be yourself. awkward, anxious, whatever. stop trying so hard to make an impression and it will all fall into place, in my opinion.
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Old 12-05-2010, 09:44 PM
 
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I'm 24 years old, never kissed a girl before, least not on the lips, but I've been on a date. Like one lol when I was 15? I've never really gotten serious with girls 100% until after HS kind of.

Go on ahead and call me pathetic, but it'll make it worthwhile when I do kiss a girl for the first time
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Old 12-05-2010, 10:27 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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I'm 24 years old, never kissed a girl before, least not on the lips, but I've been on a date. Like one lol when I was 15? I've never really gotten serious with girls 100% until after HS kind of.

Go on ahead and call me pathetic, but it'll make it worthwhile when I do kiss a girl for the first time
Let's be pathetic together,
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Old 12-06-2010, 12:07 AM
 
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Already got my suspenders, pocket protectors, and my big glasses ready.
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Old 05-11-2011, 04:37 PM
 
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I'm talking about someone who never even had a bf/gf in high school, or romantically kissed someone. Will their total lack of experience combined with their advanced age make their first relationship harder/more awkward, especially with the fears and hangups, or will it just take a bit longer? Even on cd I'm betting it's rare, lol, but does it largely depend on the person and WHY they've got to 25 in this condition? Yes, if you must know, I'm referring to yours truly. My main reasons are anxiety disorder, low self confidence and psychological issues relating to...private matters, lol.
i turned out okay
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