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my bf of 7 months doesn't like to cuddle in bed. so i made it a rule that he has to give me 3 mins cuddle every night before he falls asleep.
however, i went to bed late last night and he's asleep, when i came join him he's half awake, so i asked him to cuddle me he says no, i insisted that i needed it, so he snapped and yelled " I DON'T FKING CARE"
he appoligized today saying he's being a jerk. i don't know what to think? did i ask too much or we both should grow up?
For a start it's pretty rude of you to expect to be cuddled by a half asleep boyfriend. If he doesn't like cuddling in bed then why not respect that? As long as he cuddles you and expresses affection at other times I don't see the issue.
If he's always cold and distant then it's a problem.
If you have to force someone to cuddle you I can't understand why you'd want it. If they aren't doing it because they want to, then it's a chore. He was asleep and you came to bed late and woke him up being needy. That was inconsiderate.
He apologized this morning. If you want to avoid another outburst, start compromising on the three minute rule, or at least be reasonable.
Me personally, it just sounds odd to require this three minutes of cuddling every single night regardless of circumstances. It sounds as though it's wearing thin on his nerves. Brace yourself for future outbursts.
If you have to force someone to cuddle you I can't understand why you'd want it. If they aren't doing it because they want to, then it's a chore. He was asleep and you came to bed late and woke him up being needy. That was inconsiderate.
He apologized this morning. If you want to avoid another outburst, start compromising on the three minute rule, or at least be reasonable.
Me personally, it just sounds odd to require this three minutes of cuddling every single night regardless of circumstances. It sounds as though it's wearing thin on his nerves. Brace yourself for future outbursts.
Clingy and insecure are two words that spring to mind. Most people don't like those two characteristics much. They start grating on your nerves in any relationship.
Clingy and insecure are two words that spring to mind. Most people don't like those two characteristics much. They start grating on your nerves in any relationship.
Yep, clingy and insecure, that's exactly how it sounds. Good call!
If you have to force someone to cuddle you I can't understand why you'd want it. If they aren't doing it because they want to, then it's a chore. He was asleep and you came to bed late and woke him up being needy. That was inconsiderate.
He apologized this morning. If you want to avoid another outburst, start compromising on the three minute rule, or at least be reasonable.
Me personally, it just sounds odd to require this three minutes of cuddling every single night regardless of circumstances. It sounds as though it's wearing thin on his nerves. Brace yourself for future outbursts.
he says he loves me but not very physically intimate with me. the only hugs i get from him is when morning goodbyes. my body needs more love than that that's why i made this rule. i love him and want the closeness. he sometimes wakes me up very early in the morning like 5am wanting sex and i never never complained. i may not do what he asks for but never did i yell saying i dont fking care.
my bf of 7 months doesn't like to cuddle in bed. so i made it a rule that he has to give me 3 mins cuddle every night before he falls asleep.
however, i went to bed late last night and he's asleep, when i came join him he's half awake, so i asked him to cuddle me he says no, i insisted that i needed it, so he snapped and yelled " I DON'T FKING CARE"
he appoligized today saying he's being a jerk. i don't know what to think? did i ask too much or we both should grow up?
This is one of the most immature things I've ever heard. You're trying to make "rules" and if I was your boyfriend I would probably say "f*ck you" I don't do rules and I don't think he should have to either.
you shouldn't have to beg or make a "rule" for someone to cuddle you. ugh. let him sleep, damn.
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