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accidently saw the email bf sent to his friend half month after dating me saying that " the language barrier is too great to get serious with her" .
but 7 months later, we are still together and he even asked me to move in with him.
i was very attracted to him and thought he's a nice person and treated him the best way i could.
how evil people can be?
update
the odd thing is he asked to be exclusive 2 weeks into dating and also said to me that he sees me as his gf. i had a lot feelings for him so i happliy agreed on.
in other words, he asked to be exclusive before he sent out that email saying wont be serious with me.
also, one month after dating, he wrote to his friend bragging how he " hit it" for 1 hour and how he wouuld be extra careful not get pregnant with me, that he " doesnt want a support on his ass"
i understand no one wants accident to happen, but the way he talked to his friend about me like im some kinda of sex subject instead of his "gf", a human being.
i alway felt his being distant/emotionally detached from begining but i just didn't think too much of it.
Last edited by thewaywewere; 12-18-2010 at 10:04 PM..
Not evil really, it's just what happens sometimes. I've known guys who said she was a b*tch and then ended up dating them later! lol Sometimes it goes the other way around too! lol Oh honey, mu-ah-mu-ah to what the hell do you want? lol Life, it stinks sometimes! Ahhhhahahaha
He's not evil! Sounds more like he thought the language barrier might be a problem two weeks into dating you... but now realizes he likes you enough to know that language is no barrier to love. Or perhaps he now sees that your (or his) language skills are better than he first thought.
Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't see the problem, or anything "evil"? Maybe when you two were first dating, the language barrier was something that was frustrating him (because it can cause a LOT of misunderstandings. I've been there), but if he's asking you to move in with him, he's serious. I would say talk to him, but you're going to have a hard time explaining how you "accidentally" saw his email.
No man should dis his wife or gf behind her back. That was a major mistake on his part. Men do stupid things to their relationships and most of the time have no idea they are. Trust me I know. I'm a man. You should calmly sit him down and discuss how he's hurt you.
It's like this sort of. A man wouldn't jump into an airplane and attempt to fly it without some proper schooling. Same thing with relationships. Basically your going to have to school him on what makes you angry and what makes you happy. We are not born with this knowledge...we have to be taught. And only you can teach him what works for you! If he truly wants your relationship to work and to last...he'll listen to what you tell him and apply himself to learning and understanding what it is you need to make you happy.
I'm guilty of making mistakes myself. And I owe my wife a very big thank you for opening my eyes in the ways a woman thinks. Without her patience and persistance I'd be in hot water 5 days a week!
It's like this sort of. A man wouldn't jump into an airplane and attempt to fly it without some proper schooling. Same thing with relationships. Basically your going to have to school him on what makes you angry and what makes you happy. We are not born with this knowledge...we have to be taught. And only you can teach him what works for you! If he truly wants your relationship to work and to last...he'll listen to what you tell him and apply himself to learning and understanding what it is you need to make you happy.
This is really good advice. I think I may actually be able to apply this to my own life lol. Thanks.
No man should dis his wife or gf behind her back. That was a major mistake on his part. Men do stupid things to their relationships and most of the time have no idea they are. Trust me I know. I'm a man. You should calmly sit him down and discuss how he's hurt you.
It's like this sort of. A man wouldn't jump into an airplane and attempt to fly it without some proper schooling. Same thing with relationships. Basically your going to have to school him on what makes you angry and what makes you happy. We are not born with this knowledge...we have to be taught. And only you can teach him what works for you! If he truly wants your relationship to work and to last...he'll listen to what you tell him and apply himself to learning and understanding what it is you need to make you happy.
I'm guilty of making mistakes myself. And I owe my wife a very big thank you for opening my eyes in the ways a woman thinks. Without her patience and persistance I'd be in hot water 5 days a week!
thanks for the reply, but i know how he is, he will get irritated everytime when i try to tell him what i want, and saying that " all this bull**** again"
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