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Would nice guys or even bad boys have any commitment phobia, if women were more willing to use us for sex, even if they get their girl friends involved? In my opinion and from a male equality point of view, getting guys to clamor for a relationship instead of sex could be a goal in modern times.
Would nice guys or even bad boys have any commitment phobia, if women were more willing to use us for sex, even if they get their girl friends involved? In my opinion and from a male equality point of view, getting guys to clamor for a relationship instead of sex could be a goal in modern times.
Why not consider a vasectomy as suggested by another poster? It could alleviate your concern even if women with one track minds want to use you for sex instead of a relationship.
Vasectomies have been known to fail. And I heard that after you get a vasectomy, there's a certain time period when your sperm is still fertile. I also heard that it hurts to orgasm if you have a vasectomy. Why go through all that trouble for something that might fail?
What do your parents think of your rather extreme viewpoints, c-d?
What's confusing most of us is that you're not asexual, but you're closing yourself out of one of the greatest experiences a person can have because you're scared of something with an extremely low probability of occurrence. You feel left out now, just wait 10 years when, if you continue down this path, a normal adult relationship will be completely out of your reach and you'll be "the weird guy down the hall".
My mom says things like "you might change your mind" or "find a woman that doesn't want kids"
My dad's job keeps him busy so I don't think he gives much thought to my views. But my dad has also said I might change my mind.
You say sex is one of the greatest experiences, but if I don't know what sex is like, how am I missing out? You didn't have facebook in high school but no one knew what it was, so no one felt like they were missing out. You can't miss what you never had.
If I want my fill, I just masturbate.
And who's to say a 29 year old can't date an 18 year old virgin?
Vasectomies have been known to fail. And I heard that after you get a vasectomy, there's a certain time period when your sperm is still fertile. I also heard that it hurts to orgasm if you have a vasectomy. Why go through all that trouble for something that might fail?
Nothing is always certain, but it could alleviate your concern; besides, it could be a "conversation starter" if you ask potential girl friends to help you evacuate your glands in order empty them from any remaining sperm. In my opinion, a girl who is willing to be your friend should be willing to do it, simply for the sake of friendship.
Good for you having an abortion at 16 (I'm serious). My mom says the good girls are the ones that keep their baby. But I say the smart girls are the ones that get an abortion. They realize they're not fit to have kids at such a young age.
And do you know why I care about the stories I hear? Because I don't want that story to be mine. I want to create my own story, but I don't want the stories I hear to be my story.
I believe you that you never want kids and I believe there is a high chance you would get another abortion. However, I wouldn't have sex with someone like you. I just wouldn't want to take the risk that you would change your mind. I realize not all women are deceptive liars, but I don't want to take the risk of shagging a deceptive liar.
Your letting "fear" control your life. My suggestion, seek psychiatric help. Just because you've heard a story of someone falling doesn't mean you refused to walk right?
Yes, and I have also heard of honesty being a form of respect toward fellow human beings.
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