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On Saturday I was laying in bed just thinking about my job and getting irritated with all the things that are currently going on right now. So the phone rings and it was the girl who I;m trying to go on a second date with and we both say our happy new years. Then I started ranting about my job and how I don't like this and that but eventually changed the topic. So she ended the convo because she was going to eat dinner and I called on Sunday and received no answer around 1pm. Then I called at 9m and no answer. I sent a funny text on Monday saying-"Not Monday Again" and she never replied. I sent a text later in the day asking how her day was going and no reply. I called tonight around 8pm and noticed she wasn't her normal pleasant self. So she told me she had just got off the phone with verizon and I said-"oh they were talking crazy? She said they won't be able to fix her internet until saturday and I was like _That sucks". So I asked what time they were coming out and she told me and then the convo became arkward because she is mad. So I started talking about my day and what I had for lunch and she was like-OK!!!! Then said she needs to go so she can try and get some more information about the internet, So I just said ok and hung up. I wadn't going to try and set up another date while she was in a bad mood. But i'm thinking ne complaining about my job may have turned her off a bit? Seems like since Saturday, I haven't felt a good vibe.
I been talking to her since November and I never heard her sound like that before. If she was that much of a bad mood I would have preferred if she not answered the phone.
So I will just fall back and not call or text for about 4 or 5 days and make one last attempt at a 2nd date before I go in a different direction.
1. Two calls in one day followed by two texts the next day is pestering. She's just not that into you.
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If she was that much of a bad mood I would have preferred if she not answered the phone.
2. So you can call her up and rant and rave and carry on about your job, but you'd rather she didn't answer the phone if she was annoyed with Verizon? What, only men can be angry or annoyed? Women aren't allowed to be in a crappy mood? They must always be simpering and smiling pretty? What, are women there only to soothe a man after a rough day but can't have a rough day themselves? Men can subject women to their complaining and women should just listen raptly, but men shouldn't have to return the favor when a woman is upset?
3. Let me guess: If she did what you preferred--which was not answer the phone--you'd be on here asking why she's not returning your calls and texts.
1. Two calls in one day followed by two texts the next day is pestering. She's just not that into you.
2. So you can call her up and rant and rave and carry on about your job, but you'd rather she didn't answer the phone if she was annoyed with Verizon? What, only men can be angry or annoyed? Women aren't allowed to be in a crappy mood? They must always be simpering and smiling pretty? What, are women there only to soothe a man after a rough day but can't have a rough day themselves? Men can subject women to their complaining and women should just listen raptly, but men shouldn't have to return the favor when a woman is upset?
3. Let me guess: If she did what you preferred--which was not answer the phone--you'd be on here asking why she's not returning your calls and texts.
I was going to send one last text probably on friday or sat
On Saturday I was laying in bed just thinking about my job and getting irritated with all the things that are currently going on right now. So the phone rings and it was the girl who I;m trying to go on a second date with and we both say our happy new years. Then I started ranting about my job and how I don't like this and that but eventually changed the topic. So she ended the convo because she was going to eat dinner and I called on Sunday and received no answer around 1pm. Then I called at 9m and no answer. I sent a funny text on Monday saying-"Not Monday Again" and she never replied. I sent a text later in the day asking how her day was going and no reply. I called tonight around 8pm and noticed she wasn't her normal pleasant self. So she told me she had just got off the phone with verizon and I said-"oh they were talking crazy? She said they won't be able to fix her internet until saturday and I was like _That sucks". So I asked what time they were coming out and she told me and then the convo became arkward because she is mad. So I started talking about my day and what I had for lunch and she was like-OK!!!! Then said she needs to go so she can try and get some more information about the internet, So I just said ok and hung up. I wadn't going to try and set up another date while she was in a bad mood. But i'm thinking ne complaining about my job may have turned her off a bit? Seems like since Saturday, I haven't felt a good vibe.
I been talking to her since November and I never heard her sound like that before. If she was that much of a bad mood I would have preferred if she not answered the phone.
So I will just fall back and not call or text for about 4 or 5 days and make one last attempt at a 2nd date before I go in a different direction.
I would txt her and invite her to particpate in a threesome!!!!
If you've been talking to her since november and haven't gotten a second date, I"m not sure she's all that interested (unless it was weather or distance related). People are pretty weak when they hear others talk negatively. I personally would not mind hearing a rant about somebody's job maybe 2-3 times but then it gets old. But would you want to date somebody who is overly sensitive to hearing others complain? I mean, the world is not a happy place! Guess you have some thinking to do.
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