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I find myself stumbling on words and having to repeat them when I talk to attractive women. I guess I get a little nervous around attractive women. Is this normal? and what do you suggest I do?
I find myself stumbling on words and having to repeat them when I talk to attractive women. I guess I get a little nervous around attractive women. Is this normal? and what do you suggest I do?
how old are you? they wipe their butt just like you, don't forget that. i'm surrounded by attractive women at work so i've got no choice but to talk to them normally.
I am 20 years old. I mean it's not every word. It's just sometimes. I feel like I talk faster than my brain processes as I am into the woman and don't want to screw things up.
I am 20 years old. I mean it's not every word. It's just sometimes. I feel like I talk faster than my brain processes as I am into the woman and don't want to screw things up.
honestly a lot of guys are like that so don't worry that you're screwed up or something. it's a lack of confidence and you'll gain more by hanging out with them and interacting. give it time and don't be afraid to speak. also don't plan what you want to say or you will screw it up. just try to act natural.
i feel the same way when i talk to an attractive guy.
sometimes, i just have to keep in mind that their outer appearance says nothing about their real character. and all i know by looking at someone... is that one good thing they have going for them is looks. the rest is all up to character.
and someone can look great, but still become unattractive over time once you get to know them.
Try to remain yourself. Don't try not to fumble, don't try to sound confident either...just imagine you're talking with your sister or your best friend's girlfriend or your childhood friend.
Women are people. And people like smiles and feeling comfortable around others.
I think there are a lot of people both male and female who get nervous around someone they find attractive. I was always told how beautiful I am and... I have found myself feeling the same as you. I hope you will continue just being yourself... that's all any of us want. And please continue talking to who you are attracted to... I think a lot of great guys passed me by because of my looks...sad for both of us...
I think there are a lot of people both male and female who get nervous around someone they find attractive. I was always told how beautiful I am and... I have found myself feeling the same as you. I hope you will continue just being yourself... that's all any of us want. And please continue talking to who you are attracted to... I think a lot of great guys passed me by because of my looks...sad for both of us...
the problem is, she seemed to be really judgemental too. Like she asked me if I was a "video game freak". Seriously what was that all about? I don't think someone like that deserves me anyway. I don't even play video games. I'm a liberal minded geek is all.
The nervous thing happens to me though whenever I talk to an attractive female. i always keep thinking "I wonder what she thinks of me". I don't try to act liek someone else either. I just get unsure if she will like me for being me.
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