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Old 06-20-2020, 07:06 AM
 
Location: (six-cent-dix-sept)
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Old 06-20-2020, 07:15 AM
 
Location: (six-cent-dix-sept)
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as far as i know i've never been cheated on. but i think people should realize that ANYONE can cheat and because of that they should pay attention to what goes on around them.

my wife knows it's a deal breaker for me and i do trust her but i don't trust any guys so i keep my ears and eyes open. plus i usually carry a gun...
what does this mean ? are you talking about guys who mite victimize your wife ? have you seen it happen. does your wife also carry a gun (god forbid, what if youre not around) ?

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Old 06-20-2020, 07:22 AM
 
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hahaha how did we go from "how did you catch a cheater" to being sodomized in prison!! in less than ten minutes no less!!
+1; i generally like lots of foreplay before my sodomy.
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Old 06-20-2020, 08:24 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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+1; i generally like lots of foreplay before my sodomy.
Takes more than that to make it painless - bring your own, just in case.
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Old 06-20-2020, 09:29 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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Private Investigator
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Old 06-20-2020, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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The dumb ass couldn’t keep his lies straight. He got himself caught.
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Old 06-21-2020, 10:51 AM
 
Location: Huntsville Area
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You can always install a program on their cell phone that tracks the phone.
You can also place a tracker on their automobile that shows on Mapquest exactly where the car sits in real time, and the tracker shows the routes the cars take.

We have a retail surveillance store that sells high level tracking devices, listening devices and tiny video recorders that can be placed anywhere. They'll also teach you how to use their products effectively.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:20 AM
 
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Why bother? If you don't actually trust the person you are dating, does it actually matter whether you have proof or not? Why not just break up with the person for being untrustworthy?

Then go get an STD test and be done with your ex.
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Old 06-21-2020, 02:21 PM
 
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Why bother? If you don't actually trust the person you are dating, does it actually matter whether you have proof or not? Why not just break up with the person for being untrustworthy?

Then go get an STD test and be done with your ex.
Exactly, end of thread.
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Old 06-21-2020, 06:10 PM
 
Location: Richmond VA
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My stupid husband started getting up at 5am to go to work. I knew very well the only 2 things he would get up at 5am for were fishing and golf. He would normally go to work around 10am (he was the boss) so 5am seemed very fishy to me. (it was not the only clue that something was going on)

I bought a GPS tracking device from ebay and put it under the seat of my husband's car This was in 2004 so it was very primitive, but it did the trick. When I plugged it in to my computer, it showed a little black car on a map driving from my house, right past his office, to a coworker's house. He told me since her husband had left he was 'mowing her lawn' for her.

He was very impressed with my ingenuity and took the device to put on fleet vehicles at work. And then I threw him out.

Not once did he ever confess to having sex with her.

Ultimately I did not need to prove his infidelity. He was checked out of our marriage/family on so many different levels, even if he could have proven to me that he wasn't cheating, the relationship is over.

So if your relationship is clearly over, you may need to think hard about putting yourself through the process of 'proving' something only to justify what you already know. Someone on this forum advised me of that and I truly appreciated it.
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