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Old 02-07-2011, 02:12 PM
 
Location: Heart of Oklahoma
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Ok so need everyones honest opinion. If two people meet at a party and drunkly hookup, is there ever a chance these two people can get together again down the road?

I've only seen it happen once--on a movie screen. About Last Night with Rob Lowe and Demi Moore. But, that was a fantasy so it doesn't count.

No, probably not. It was very clear to him that you didn't respect yourself, so that let him off the hook for respecting you. You offered, he was up for it, he went for it, end of story.

Ever wonder why they're called "HOOK-ups"? It's the female who usually gets hooked and HOOKS hurt like hell.
Not this girl... I would die for a relationship that was at my convenience.
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Old 02-07-2011, 02:16 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Why is there an assumption that it's the woman who doesn't respect herself instead of the man? They BOTH engaged in drunken sex. And why would it be assumed that it's him that wouldn't respect her, rather than - *gasp* - her not respecting him for having drunken sex.

It seems they both participated, did they not? It's no different for one than the other, except perhaps in some people's mindless bias.
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Old 02-07-2011, 02:17 PM
 
Location: DC
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I have said it before and I will say it again. If a guy likes you it doesn't matter if you had sex the first night or the 30th night. As men if we like a girl we stick around. Pretty simple
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Old 02-07-2011, 02:19 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Most guys, myself included, will immediately remove you from the "potential girlfriend" pool if you have sex with us on the first date.
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Old 02-07-2011, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Most guys, myself included, will immediately remove you from the "potential girlfriend" pool if you have sex with us on the first date.
IMO, most such guys will marry the "good" girl or the ice queen, and then wonder what happened to their sex life.
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Old 02-07-2011, 03:24 PM
 
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Ok so need everyones honest opinion. If two people meet at a party and drunkly hookup, is there ever a chance these two people can get together again down the road?

I had drunk sex this weekend and feel really stupid right now; feel as though I really messed up and this guy is going to have no respect for me now.
I met the love of my life through drunk sex. It can happen. Depends.
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Old 02-07-2011, 09:18 PM
 
Location: Nashvile for now
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Most guys, myself included, will immediately remove you from the "potential girlfriend" pool if you have sex with us on the first date.
At least he's being honest.
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Old 02-08-2011, 02:46 AM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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At least he's being honest.
I am nothing if not honest.
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Old 02-08-2011, 04:42 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Of course there's a chance you and him could get together down the road. Even though it was a drunken hook up there's some level of attraction there. I would prefer not to start a relationship like this, but who knows? Maybe you'll have dinner with him and find out you're compatible. It's not like relationships have to follow some manual.
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Old 02-08-2011, 05:21 AM
 
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I think it is possible. You need to see him when you are sober and talk. You will know how he feels by the way he acts. If all he wants is sex, then the answer is no. I have never had a drunken hook-up, but I have had a drunken I think I have found "the one" incident. Yes, in my inebriated haze I saw this guy as the one I had been searching for. We exchanged numbers, talked all night, and planned to get together. When we met sober, he was not who my drunken mind had made him out to be. More than likely I wasn't who he thought I was either. We became friends, nothing more.
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