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I have a friend who just ended his relationship with a woman he has been with for about two years. They always had that on again off again thing going and so i knew it wasn't really over until he finally caught her cheating about a two weeks ago. Well, now he is trying very hard to date me, he lives in florida and i live in Georgia. He wants me to drive four hours down to Florida just to spend valentines day with him. I find it very odd and rushed, he uses these endearing terms when he texts me like, baby and sweetheart. And sends me half nude pictures of himself. Its like our friendship just changed overnight and i am not comfortable with it and the fact that he just confinded in me three weeks ago that he was interested in another woman in Georgia but she has suddenly lost interest in him just turns me off.
So I told him that i am not down with being a rebound woman. He stated that he didn't see me like that but that I was helping him get through a bad situation and if he was to ever find a girlfriend then he would not talk to me anymore but we would still be cool. WTF....was he serious??? And if I would ever consider being with him how long before the rebound period is over.
There is not one thing in your post that leads me to believe there is anything right with this fellow. His story(ies) have the stench of BS and I get a player vibe from your post. IMO Beware this one.
I have a friend who just ended his relationship with a woman he has been with for about two years. They always had that on again off again thing going and so i knew it wasn't really over until he finally caught her cheating about a two weeks ago. Well, now he is trying very hard to date me, he lives in florida and i live in Georgia. He wants me to drive four hours down to Florida just to spend valentines day with him. I find it very odd and rushed, he uses these endearing terms when he texts me like, baby and sweetheart. And sends me half nude pictures of himself. Its like our friendship just changed overnight and i am not comfortable with it and the fact that he just confinded in me three weeks ago that he was interested in another woman in Georgia but she has suddenly lost interest in him just turns me off.
So I told him that i am not down with being a rebound woman. He stated that he didn't see me like that but that I was helping him get through a bad situation and if he was to ever find a girlfriend then he would not talk to me anymore but we would still be cool. WTF....was he serious??? And if I would ever consider being with him how long before the rebound period is over.
Yup. This is exactly what he wants from you. Distraction. Fahgetabout him. NEXT!
yep, he said all i would need to do is get there and he would take care of everything else when i got there. Basically he would pay for everything and i would get dinner, get to go out with him and good sex, or excuse me he has this thing about doing it on the first night so i mean good foreplay...in my opinion not worth a four hour drive.
He sounds like a nutcase. I can't imagine anything positive you could possibly get out of this man, in a relationship, NSA hook-up, or frankly a friendship either. He sounds rather unbalanced. What kind of jerk really thinks it's okay to ask a woman to drive 4 hours so she can give him rebound sex? If he's this blunt and selfish about his intentions from the start (you know, during the honeymoon phase when he's wooing you and supposedly on his best behavior!) think of what a tool he'll be once this wears off.
yep, he said all i would need to do is get there and he would take care of everything else when i got there. Basically he would pay for everything and i would get dinner, get to go out with him and good sex, or excuse me he has this thing about doing it on the first night so i mean good foreplay...in my opinion not worth a four hour drive.
so he want you to drive 4 hours to give him a BJ? i wanna know if this guy pulls this off. please let us know if you do it.
Tell HIM that if he wants to see you that HE can drive for 4 hours. I'm guessing that he won't do it..If you do, you're allowing him to USE you, I don't understand how you could even consider being close to this man. You could be out some good coin if you do go to him, because him just saying he'll take care of everthing else could mean ...I'll take care of expences,,but only if things turn out the way I want!
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Fahgetabout him. NEXT!
