Being called a B***** (woman, interested, issues, people)

[CarolVa1977]

Another thins lovesmountains this is a relationship forum.

There are like 10 threads on the subject "I meet a guy online , I gave him sex now he dissapeared". If those post are the ones you refer too... then yes... all my opinions are the same: lack of self respect

It is a forum where people come to discuss relationships. My idea of a relationship is one and only one. I mean... it is not like we are talking politics are we?

[tommere]

I actually found, pre-marriage, that people that others called B****** were actually the most fun sexually.

Take it for what it is worth CarolVA....but that is my recollection!

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by LuckyGem

Where did I say it was an Either / Or situation, that you can't be wise and in a relationship?

My point is that there are women who will settle for anything and sacrifice their integrity just to have a man, and that it's better to be wise and alone than with some guy who couldn't care less about you except for what he can get.

Frankly, I'd rather not be EITHER of those women (wise and alone OR settling just not to be alone)

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by CarolVa1977

Another thins lovesmountains this is a relationship forum.

There are like 10 threads on the subject "I meet a guy online , I gave him sex now he dissapeared". If those post are the ones you refer too... then yes... all my opinions are the same: lack of self respect

It is a forum where people come to discuss relationships. My idea of a relationship is one and only one. I mean... it is not like we are talking politics are we?

We don't disagree about the plethora of women here with no self respect .

But back on topic...if someone who has been a good friend to you tells you something about yourself, as unpleasant as that thing is, I think it's worth some self evaluation, that's all I was trying to say.

[CarolVa1977]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

We don't disagree about the plethora of women here with no self respect .

But back on topic...if someone who has been a good friend to you tells you something about yourself, as unpleasant as that thing is, I think it's worth some self evaluation, that's all I was trying to say.

I think so too... but you know what it has been a few years and she just does not like me. I am not perfect but if someone dislikes me SO much... then what is the point to be friends.

JMO. (It is kind of like too much drama to begin with)

[LuckyGem]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Frankly, I'd rather not be EITHER of those women (wise and alone OR settling just not to be alone)

If I had to choose, I would rather be alone than deal with a man who used me for my money to have a place to stay while being told he doesn't love me.

I would never settle with a loser just to have a man.

[CarolVa1977]

Originally Posted by LuckyGem

If I had to choose, I would rather be alone than deal with a man who used me for my money to have a place to stay while being told he doesn't love me.

I would never settle with a loser just to have a man.

Me neither and if that makes me a B*** well, I guess I am one.

[lovesMountains]

Again, I get that of the TWO choices you'd each rather be alone.

I'm just saying it doesn't have to be an either or choice. There are other options, and personally I wouldn't get stuck with just those two.

[donie1]

I think you have a good head on your shoulders when it comes to men. Don't lower yourself just to have any man. As for your friend, drop her. You don't need to surround yourself with someone that has low self esteem. Also when you're drunk, you tell exactly how you feel so she's not liking you at all. Time to move on.

[Jefetio]

She doesn't sound like a very good friend. I'm sorry about that.