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Exactly!! Although I must say there is very little respect for a married woman's wedding ring anyway....I have always gotten the "So what?"
I know! This happened to me recently. I purposely wear a wide band, complete with diamond and wrap, and it doesn't mean a wit. Not only did this guy whistle, wave, and wait on me in the parking lot of a store, he followed me until I dodged him in traffic. I was a little creeped out. Did he not see the rings, the start of graying hair, the few extra pounds??
Taken women probably feel safer being friendlier because they can assume that the friendliness won't be taken as a proposition.
Exactly. Women in general like being friendly and having a lot of friends. Once it is known by all that we are off the singles market, we can relax and be friendly without being hit upon by guys that we don't want to date. But when we are single and being friendly, too often we are pestered for dates by guys that we have no interest in dating.
And that's also why, we are always friendly to gay men, because taken or not, we know that there's going to be no problems with them hitting on us.
Women are shallow beyond any man's wildest comprehension, so when they are single, they feel that they are entitled to a man's attention and act pricey and haughty, once they are taken though, they realize what jerks they had been all their lives, and in order to make amends for the same, try to be nice and friendly with people around, that shouldn't be mistaken for politeness, it's a mere act of pretence.
The problem with guys is that they are trying to buy when they need to be selling. Guys we don't know how to buy. Shopping is for girls. Let them do the buying. Tod do that fain interest. Don't push the issue of them being hot or looking amazing. If they are hot, 99 other guys allready told them that ahead of you. Be nice but don't act interested. One of those ladies you are chasing is eventually going to wonder why it is your not into her. Then instead of you trying to buy something you start to sell something. Yourself. If you are all that and she is interested, then a sale will be made. If you have issues that she can't overcome then you go back on the rack. That is just how it is.
The problem with guys is that they are trying to buy when they need to be selling. Guys we don't know how to buy. Shopping is for girls. Let them do the buying. Tod do that fain interest. Don't push the issue of them being hot or looking amazing. If they are hot, 99 other guys allready told them that ahead of you. Be nice but don't act interested. One of those ladies you are chasing is eventually going to wonder why it is your not into her. Then instead of you trying to buy something you start to sell something. Yourself. If you are all that and she is interested, then a sale will be made. If you have issues that she can't overcome then you go back on the rack. That is just how it is.
Women are shallow beyond any man's wildest comprehension, so when they are single, they feel that they are entitled to a man's attention and act pricey and haughty, once they are taken though, they realize what jerks they had been all their lives, and in order to make amends for the same, try to be nice and friendly with people around, that shouldn't be mistaken for politeness, it's a mere act of pretence.
Any thoughts? I've noticed that at work the married women or the taken ones are more talkative and friendly. The single ones don't want to be bothered, you know how many times over my life I've heard women say ohh if I wasn't married/taken I'd date you. I know thats a lie!! it's got to be no one thats single ever wants to be bothered with me. So whats up with that?
Because, deep down, they crave what they do not have. They want to ride your baloney pony in the worst possible way. I think you should go over to their offices, one after another, and offer it to them in very specific and straightforward ways.
I'll wait here.
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