He packed cialis for trip without me (women, living together, senior)

[optimisticinohio]

We have been living together for 4 years and here I was helping him pack for his radio trip.

I was going to put a sweet note in the side pocket only to discover he had a blister pack of cialis in that pocket.

We normally keep those in the nightstand drawer.

The warning signs for me is this time instead of him doing this fest for the two days he's gone this morning and making it a 4 night trip.

This is my home and at this point I want to change the locks and tell him to move on my first instinct.

Sad part is both of us are widows and went through the same thing.

What would you do and how would you confront him?

I myself would like to say how would he feel if I packed condoms in my bag for a weekend trip.

[ben242000]

I don't really know how they work, but maybe he just wants to masturbate?

[JustJulia]

I would ask him point-blank what they are for. He'll either have a good explanation or try to lie about it.

[andreaspercheron]

I'd take the bag out, shake it in front of him and ask WTF??

[ChessieMom]

Well I didn't really know what Cialis was, but I gather from your post that it's an ED medication.

I'd go with the changing of the locks.

[*Sixy*]

Maybe they were left in there from the last time you took a trip together?

[CarolVa1977]

Originally Posted by ChessieMom

Well I didn't really know what Cialis was, but I gather from your post that it's an ED medication.

I'd go with the changing of the locks.

I concur.

[STT Resident]

Originally Posted by JustJulia

I would ask him point-blank what they are for. He'll either have a good explanation or try to lie about it.

The most logical answer. In four years of being together you haven't been communicating? Just ask instead of conjuring up the worst case scenario and changing the locks routine. Once you know you can deal with it. Good luck.

[CarolVa1977]

What is a good explanation for that? Just wondering

[Currency Pair Crocodile]

Cialis is for the oldies who suffer from erectile dysfunction.

This is how nature works, grand poppies. When you realize you wake up ten times to take a leak, one drop each time, it's time to hit the local diner to grab senior pancakes and omelets, and take part in a religious rediscovery in the closest church and be nice to the women who are always there for you.

Instead, you pack these wonder pills and go deplete your retirement that is already depleted. God go with you, grasshoppers, coz none of us will.

Angry in OH, you are right to punish him as you see fit

Now smile and be happy in OH.