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Old 03-02-2011, 06:56 AM
 
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The most logical answer. In four years of being together you haven't been communicating? Just ask instead of conjuring up the worst case scenario and changing the locks routine. Once you know you can deal with it. Good luck.
we actually have been communicating and last night he even brought me home a few presents and wanted to cuddle while we slept which is the usual.

The bottom line on this one we have not taken trips together and those are always kept in the nightstand
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Old 03-02-2011, 06:59 AM
 
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Well, did you swipe the pills before he left?
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Old 03-02-2011, 07:01 AM
 
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we actually have been communicating and last night he even brought me home a few presents and wanted to cuddle while we slept which is the usual.

The bottom line on this one we have not taken trips together and those are always kept in the nightstand
So then I would ask him...no...first I would count how many are left when he comes back and then I would ask him why he need to take them with him.
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Old 03-02-2011, 07:02 AM
 
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Nothing like jumping to conclusions before asking a few questions! If they were still in there from before, I think he should dump YOU for lack of trust!
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Old 03-02-2011, 07:05 AM
 
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Well, did you swipe the pills before he left?
I thought about it but figured he could choose his own destiny and live with it.

we were young widows so we are only in our 40's most assume widows are much older.

Right now though I wish i did put them back in the drawer.

I'm just so torn and I'm not a bad looking woman and I deserve better.

My husband was a gem so this is all new to me.

This reminds of a picture I saw online where it was labelled its not always greener on the other side and the poor cow had its head stuck under the fence.
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Old 03-02-2011, 07:05 AM
 
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The most logical answer. In four years of being together you haven't been communicating? Just ask instead of conjuring up the worst case scenario and changing the locks routine. Once you know you can deal with it. Good luck.
This is like John Malkovich in burn after reading:

"You tell Dr. Cox I've got new keys"
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Old 03-02-2011, 07:07 AM
 
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I thought about it but figured he could choose his own destiny and live with it.

we were young widows so we are only in our 40's most assume widows are much older.

Right now though I wish i did put them back in the drawer.

I'm just so torn and I'm not a bad looking woman and I deserve better.

My husband was a gem so this is all new to me.

This reminds of a picture I saw online where it was labelled its not always greener on the other side and the poor cow had its head stuck under the fence.
You do. Ask the questions you need to ask if the answers do not satisfy you change the locks

I hope the house is on your name only.
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Old 03-02-2011, 07:09 AM
 
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You do. Ask the questions you need to ask if the answers do not satisfy you change the locks

I hope the house is on your name only.
yes the house is in my name only I own it no mortgage on it either.
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Old 03-02-2011, 07:11 AM
 
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Nothing like jumping to conclusions before asking a few questions! If they were still in there from before, I think he should dump YOU for lack of trust!
these were not in there from before but the doctor blister packs that they give you in a sample bag.

we always put that bag in the nightstand.

what i found was the foil pack that is inside the sample box...it was folded up and tucked in the pocket of the travel bag and one missing by the way out of 3
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Old 03-02-2011, 07:17 AM
 
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what i found was the foil pack that is inside the sample box...it was folded up and tucked in the pocket of the travel bag and one missing by the way out of 3

Honestly, if it were me, I would have taken the pills. lol

But, I don't know if they are only used for sex or, like someone else mentioned, masturbating? Maybe he's just going to watch some porn in the hotel or something...you never know.

I wouldn't change the locks, that just seems cruel & ridiculous, but I would definitely demand some honesty about what's up with those pills when he gets back...
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