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Old 01-09-2019, 12:45 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Well I got an interesting message on an online dating site today.

I had been exchanging messages with someone over the past few weeks. I went on a 2 week trip and said I’d reach out when I got back. I sent a note with availability. Here is the reply I got:

“I’m free on xyz day. And to up front, if we have a good connnection, I want to get a room and have a night cap. If that’s ok with you.”

I guess I should be happy he was open and up front about what he wants?!?!?!?



Has anyone else had a similar message?
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Old 01-09-2019, 12:54 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Yes, though it was more along the lines, if we hit it off we should go for brunch tomorrow. We did.
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Old 01-09-2019, 01:07 PM
 
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Wow, he is not hiding his intentions. Hahaha.

I cannot ever imagine telling a woman that when I have not even met her. Wow.
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Old 01-09-2019, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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i received something like "lets meet this weekend and see if our chemistry morphs into a connection in an intimate way."

You already know he wants sex so he will be attentive, wash his armpits and likely pay for dinner. Anyone can fake a connection when there's a prize at the end.
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Old 01-09-2019, 01:09 PM
 
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Tacky
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Old 01-09-2019, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Denver area
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I guess the timeless art of seduction is truly a thing of the past.
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Old 01-09-2019, 02:17 PM
 
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Originally Posted by jade408 View Post
Well I got an interesting message on an online dating site today.

I had been exchanging messages with someone over the past few weeks. I went on a 2 week trip and said I’d reach out when I got back. I sent a note with availability. Here is the reply I got:

“I’m free on xyz day. And to up front, if we have a good connnection, I want to get a room and have a night cap. If that’s ok with you.”

I guess I should be happy he was open and up front about what he wants?!?!?!?



Has anyone else had a similar message?

Lol


Yes, I've had a few. I told them I wasn't into that and we wouldn't be a good match. I was upfront too and it saved us both time. Everybody wins.
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Old 01-09-2019, 02:21 PM
 
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How did you respond?
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Old 01-09-2019, 03:38 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Good luck with that one....
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Old 01-09-2019, 03:49 PM
 
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Wow, he is not hiding his intentions. Hahaha.

I cannot ever imagine telling a woman that when I have not even met her. Wow.
i bet you never thought you could call or even text a Friend With Benefits either without having to pay for dinner and a movie.

Times have changed. Some just wanna (beep) with no strings. Apparently there are women that say yes to this.

What does he have to lose?
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