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Old 03-28-2011, 07:35 PM
 
Location: Up North
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I would give her a chance. I kind of want to know what type of porn it was, but I don't know if thats oversteping it.

A lot of people fall into the sex industry and the fact that she told you up front like that is admirable, perhaps she is gauging how you will react to this news.
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Old 03-28-2011, 07:45 PM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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Met a really interesting woman, pretty, adventurous, sexy, down to earth, and way too honest! She told me right up front that she had done work in the industry. I looked her up on line and found she had done about 6 short flicks year years ago. It was a little wierd watching it but I am very open minded and have no problems dating her. She has not been a relationship in a while and tested herself often back in the day so STDs are not likely and I'm always protected anyway.
I'm not likely to have a LTR with her (or any other woman for that matter) and other than friends giving me crap if/when they found out what is the down side?
The down side is that you can't stop blabbing about it. You told your friends she was in porn now you're telling the entire forum. Nobody would be giving you crap if you didn't tell them. There is no downside, unless she wants to run for President. There is no reason for her (or you) to disclose that bit of info.
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Old 03-29-2011, 07:05 AM
 
Location: Vegas, baby, Vegas!
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Apples and Oranges, Jonathan. Apples and Oranges.
Well Apple's and PC's actually...

Jonathan
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Old 03-29-2011, 02:48 PM
 
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Old 03-29-2011, 04:43 PM
 
Location: USA
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Well, she sabotaged it before it got off the ground. I found the crazy side is way out there!!! It was an interesting mind excersise non the less. Back to my boring life
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Old 03-29-2011, 04:51 PM
 
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Well, she sabotaged it before it got off the ground. I found the crazy side is way out there!!! It was an interesting mind excersise non the less. Back to my boring life

What happened?! Pleeease tell us!
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Old 03-29-2011, 06:51 PM
 
Location: USA
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Well, She has been saying I'm like no other man she's met..standard woman line I know. She say's I haven't been trying to jump her bones like every guy she meets. My guess is 1/2 the guys take off when they find out what she did, the other half want to do her now!
Needless to say, she hasn't had any for a while and her old boyfriend who I know confirmed this. So, she says Ive been kind of distant with her the last few days. Strange, Ive texted more than usual, called a few times, just haven't had any face time. Long story short I found out she had a guy at her place last night and they were doing more than cooking chicken!

Odd, No guys for long period of time, than start to get close with me, than bam, Grab some strange guy. I forgot what they call that in psych, but it's enough to make me head south. Very interesting experience though. Probably would have been painful to see it through!

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Old 03-29-2011, 06:53 PM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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What happened?! Pleeease tell us!
My guess is he didn't measure up.
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Old 03-30-2011, 10:23 AM
 
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Well, She has been saying I'm like no other man she's met..standard woman line I know. She say's I haven't been trying to jump her bones like every guy she meets. My guess is 1/2 the guys take off when they find out what she did, the other half want to do her now!
Needless to say, she hasn't had any for a while and her old boyfriend who I know confirmed this. So, she says Ive been kind of distant with her the last few days. Strange, Ive texted more than usual, called a few times, just haven't had any face time. Long story short I found out she had a guy at her place last night and they were doing more than cooking chicken!

Odd, No guys for long period of time, than start to get close with me, than bam, Grab some strange guy. I forgot what they call that in psych, but it's enough to make me head south. Very interesting experience though. Probably would have been painful to see it through!
Are you surprised? Step away from the porn girls.

It's interesting how guys will try to normalize it in some way but for a girl to do porn even once, something is very off. Every female instinct goes against it and the girl has to be pretty damaged to do it.
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Old 03-30-2011, 11:07 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Are you surprised? Step away from the porn girls.

It's interesting how guys will try to normalize it in some way but for a girl to do porn even once, something is very off. Every female instinct goes against it and the girl has to be pretty damaged to do it.
That was my point too

And the truth is, why would you WANT to be the guy who takes advantage of a damaged person?
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