Is sex that important? (girlfriends, lesbian, girls, partner)
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Well he SUCKS at it! (Hope is not reading this) he blames it on his short tongue ( All my exes had long tongue so he might be right). He has tried to please me orally but it's not working but I don't mind , it's not a deal breaker for me. The job that his P*nis does makes up for it!
Long tongue, short tongue? The target is out in front, how long does a tongue need to be? The best advice on this matter is found in a movie where the character explained it should be mouthed like you were gently handling the flesh of a peach, without damaging the flesh. Other stimuli can be helpful at the same time...pinky in the...playfully pinching brea..rubbing behind earlobe..
I really need to get a bunch of strippers together to write a book on this, I'll make millions!
My husband and I are both in our late 20's and been married for 4 years. Honestly, there's not a day that passes by where I am happy that I've married that man! I didn't get any "surprise" the next day after the wedding. He is still the same loving, affectionate, supportive , romantic guy that Ive dated.
We do pretty much EVERYTHING together (especially that we've moved to a new state a year ago and we still haven't made any friends).
Well, the other day I was catching up with my cousins (3 way conversation line) when we started talking about sex and I got a little bit self conscious. They were talking about how they do it "every" night and how you shouldn't do it less than 6 times a week! . My hubby and I don't have any kids yet so we wouldn't say that we have a crazy schedule but one thing is for sure we don't have sex "every night".
I don't consider myself being a very sexual person as I've calmed down from my wild teenage years but I do love sex! We do it at least 7-10 times a month but he gets oral sex almost every day ( very convenient when I want him to go to sleep fast so I can get the TV all for myself!).
Now judging by this conversation and what I see on TV I'm wondering if our relationship is "normal" on a sexual standard. I think if he was unhappy sexually he would have let me know (he's pretty vocal about stating his concerns).. and there's no way he's cheating on me, we are working together!.
So is my relationship normal? Should we be having sex more? I'm sexually happy and I think he is too! Do married people really have sex every night? Please help!
As long as you two are happy with the way things work, who cares whether or not it fits into somebody else's notion of what is "normal"? Normal is whatever works for the two of you IMO. Enjoy!
It's hard when he's up because he needs to watch his shows on the big TV and be comfortable (which is in the Bedroom) and leave me with the crappy one in the living room...so when my shows are up, I use my magic tricks!
Just a question here....
Does he work just as hard to make you happy? I don't know...it seems kind of one-sided from the little bit you've posted. Why does he NEED to watch the big TV and be comfy and you get stuck with the crappy one?
And the oral thing...if he sucks at him, tell him what to do! You need to be doing a little directing here...why give up on him? Every man has to learn sometime.
Long tongue, short tongue? The target is out in front, how long does a tongue need to be? The best advice on this matter is found in a movie where the character explained it should be mouthed like you were gently handling the flesh of a peach, without damaging the flesh. Other stimuli can be helpful at the same time...pinky in the...playfully pinching brea..rubbing behind earlobe..
I really need to get a bunch of strippers together to write a book on this, I'll make millions!
Beats the Hell out of me, but I just know I've been compared to Gene Simmons, and it seems to make a difference to them!
With a BJ per night + Sex, I'd say the guy's gonna be happy.
And I agree that the OP will probably find that she is 'ramped up' once she hits her 30's.
Current GF has said that a couple X per week was fine in her 20's, now at 31....
I feel that in today's culture sex seems to be over-emphasized.
My Dw began her peri-menopause around 25. [low estrogen, hot flashes, night sweats, mood swings, etc] Then a back injury resulting in a slipped disk seems to have damaged the nerves that go to and control that region of the body.
It has been a long fight for us. A long string of clueless doctors that could do no more then shrug their shoulders. It seems that only now have we finally found a doctor that is willing to focus on the medical side of this.
I think that the most important feature in a marriage is to be each others' best friend. If there is a lot of fighting, if you do not talk things through to reach agreement on goals; then you may grow apart. As best friends you care about each other. I think that is more important than the sex.
As for your desire to have a "sexually happy husband", it does sound like you are holding up your end there. You husband is a very lucky man. I think that very few husbands honestly have it so good.
My husband and I are both in our late 20's and been married for 4 years. Honestly, there's not a day that passes by where I am happy that I've married that man! I didn't get any "surprise" the next day after the wedding. He is still the same loving, affectionate, supportive , romantic guy that Ive dated.
We do pretty much EVERYTHING together (especially that we've moved to a new state a year ago and we still haven't made any friends).
Well, the other day I was catching up with my cousins (3 way conversation line) when we started talking about sex and I got a little bit self conscious. They were talking about how they do it "every" night and how you shouldn't do it less than 6 times a week! . My hubby and I don't have any kids yet so we wouldn't say that we have a crazy schedule but one thing is for sure we don't have sex "every night".
I don't consider myself being a very sexual person as I've calmed down from my wild teenage years but I do love sex! We do it at least 7-10 times a month but he gets oral sex almost every day ( very convenient when I want him to go to sleep fast so I can get the TV all for myself!).
Now judging by this conversation and what I see on TV I'm wondering if our relationship is "normal" on a sexual standard. I think if he was unhappy sexually he would have let me know (he's pretty vocal about stating his concerns).. and there's no way he's cheating on me, we are working together!.
So is my relationship normal? Should we be having sex more? I'm sexually happy and I think he is too! Do married people really have sex every night? Please help!
Im not married..and I have it every nite..thank god he likes it as much as I do.
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) he blames it on his short tongue ( All my exes had long tongue so he might be right). He has tried to please me orally but it's not working but I don't mind , it's not a deal breaker for me. The job that his P*nis does makes up for it!
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