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Old 03-29-2011, 01:56 PM
 
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I either do nothing or smile at them.
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Old 03-29-2011, 03:06 PM
 
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Was just wondering, as this happened last night.

Of course the logical thing is ignore them and move along, but at the moment, you want to grill them back. It really irritates me with the lack of respect people have checking out my girl right in front of me.

What do you do when a group of guys, in my case younger THUGS are in front of you looking back at you and your girl. What do you guys usually do, stare back at them, ask what they are looking at, or just ignore them, wait if they get confrontational.

That is the key difference right there. Yeah I can vision that and them saying smart stuff to her in front of you.
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Old 03-29-2011, 03:19 PM
 
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This reminds me of a guy I dated.

We were out at a club and well guys always look, but he got so upset..

We aren't talking about a guy just looking. I have been out in the past with extremely attractive women and I knew I'd have to deal with the guys looking. The problem is a lot of the time as soon as you turn your back they try and hit on her and try to c**k block you.

And as mentioned, get a group of thugs together and they'll act even more rude and courageous and direct.

I mean frankly I'll look at a chick who is with a guy, like if she has 44dd's and is wearing tight to show off I am hooked like a deer in headlights, or in this case a LK at headlights bahaha! But won't try and hit on her sheesh....
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Old 03-29-2011, 05:08 PM
 
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Group of guys checking out your girl what do you do?

Nothing be flattered. I get irritated with insecure guys. My issue is usually if a guy is with a girl and I am not even looking at her, yet the guy will grill me like I am. This happened just this past weekend when I was at the mall with my mom. It was her birthday and I took her out to eat and to a movie. If she wasn't with me, I would have said to the guy, you got an eye problem? No one wants your bus t asz girl so stop grilling me. Or do you got a little thing for me? If he wanted to take it further we can go outside. This is just who I am. Don't take crap from anyone and it takes a rarity to strike fear in me. I am a fighter. I am not proud of it, but I also am not ashamed of it anymore. I told my mom about what happened and I told her if she wasn't with me most likely I would have kicked that guys teeth through the back of his head. I know what your thinking another wannabe tough guy. Not the case. I just am who I am, and like I said. I am not going to apologize for it anymore. I said the same thing to my mom, but she already knows how I am. I used to play the humble card and tell people I don't like to fight, but that was all bs. Truth is we are what we are and some men (and I'll steal a quote from Rocky) just have to dump the junk in the trunk sometimes. Some guys have just so much pride and heart that they couldn't back down if they wanted to. However, having said that, I have learned to let some stuff go the older I get. Otherwise, I'd be in prison. But this guy looked like a meathead and I love beating up meatheads. They get big and think everyones afraid. Truth is most guys who work out can't fight for a lick. That's usually why they work out, because most of their life they get punked by people because deep down their sissies. They get big and think that they intimidate everyone. I know better, plus it doesn't hurt that I wrestled for many years so that's my advantage.

Having said all that. Sometimes if a guy is really grilling your girl it can go from flattering to disrespectful. As if he's not worried about you one bit. In that case, if they continue like your some punk, then maybe it's ok to say, I don't mind you thinking my women is attractive. I tend to think so as well. But you don't know me from adam and your disrespect for me is crossing the line. So maybe I'll just say thank you for looking at my girl. It was flattering, however, if you continue, you are now disrespecting me, and I don't care for being disrespected,-how would you feel? If as diplomatic as saying that doesn't get the point across in hopefully a non-confrontational way, then maybe the guy is just looking for a fight. In which I don't have no problem obliging him.
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Old 03-29-2011, 05:22 PM
 
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Was just wondering, as this happened last night.

Of course the logical thing is ignore them and move along, but at the moment, you want to grill them back. It really irritates me with the lack of respect people have checking out my girl right in front of me.

What do you do when a group of guys, in my case younger thugs are in front of you looking back at you and your girl. What do you guys usually do, stare back at them, ask what they are looking at, or just ignore them, wait if they get confrontational.
Looking and or touching or trying to hit on them or pick them up is two totally different things.
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Old 03-29-2011, 05:24 PM
 
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What do you do? you FLIP OUT!!! Kill the first 2 quickly with a couple of throwing stars. Run forward and jump in the air towards a wall or vehicle, something that you can propel off of. From there, deliver a devastating flying kick to the head of the closest guy. When you land, be sure to hit a crouching position with your kicking leg still extending. Pivot to the leg and do a series of back flips and somersaults. Draw your sword and decapitate the foe you just kicked in the head. From here, you are going to go into Kata. After the kata, remove your nun-chucks and proceed to show off then unsuspectingly throw the nunchucks at one of the 2 remaining foes. As the final and leader of the group watches his hombre hit the ground, you are going to toss your sword in the air, run forward, and perform a Liu Kiang bicycle kick. Then grabbing him with both feet, flip him back where he will land on his back just in time to catch the sword in his midsection. Tower over him a moment, say something cool, then decapitate him. Take the severed head and put it on a pole for all others to see and fear. Problem solved.
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Old 03-29-2011, 06:18 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Was just wondering, as this happened last night.

Of course the logical thing is ignore them and move along, but at the moment, you want to grill them back. It really irritates me with the lack of respect people have checking out my girl right in front of me.

What do you do when a group of guys, in my case younger thugs are in front of you looking back at you and your girl. What do you guys usually do, stare back at them, ask what they are looking at, or just ignore them, wait if they get confrontational.
I usually pull out my machete and go, well, Machete on 'em
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Old 03-29-2011, 07:45 PM
 
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No, its not just about the staring. I was more concerned if things get to more than just looking, words start going, lewd comments. Who really wants to just back down and ignore them. And believe me, the comments were on the verge of being said.
If I were the girl and they started saying lewd stuff and staring lewdly I'd be like eff you, whachu lookin at you effing effs! Then they would get embarrassed and disappear cuz they're not going to hit a girl in public.
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Old 03-29-2011, 07:55 PM
 
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beat em up beat em up
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Old 03-29-2011, 08:32 PM
 
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If other guys are just catching a glance at my wife, I don't really mind it. It makes me proud to have a wife that is the prettiest girl in the room. If we are walking somewhere and we are approaching a group of guys, I might swap sides with her to be on the guys' side in order to block their view of her a little bit. I don't worry about it too much because she dresses conservatively.
If a guy ever touched her or sexually harassed her, then I would have a serious problem with it and consider taking action. There have been guys that say hello to her obviously for no reason and my wife just makes her ring visible (touching her face, etc) and they leave her alone.
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