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Old 03-29-2011, 09:51 AM
 
Location: michigan
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Have you never noticed that men seem to like the women that are like this? Is it because they like the control and need to please a women? I understand being a strong women but my personality just isnt like that. I can be one but it takes alot!
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Old 03-29-2011, 09:58 AM
 
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Have you never noticed that men seem to like the women that are like this? Is it because they like the control and need to please a women? I understand being a strong women but my personality just isnt like that. I can be one but it takes alot!
this is like the threads where the guys ask, "why do all women like guys that are jerks"? silly question. sorry you're having trouble getting dates.
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:10 AM
 
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this is like the threads where the guys ask, "why do all women like guys that are jerks"? silly question. sorry you're having trouble getting dates.
LOL so true.
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:16 AM
 
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Jerks like b#$chs.


Don't date jerks.
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:37 AM
 
Location: Puget Sound
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If you are talking about the; bitchy, entitled, in-your-face-liberated-drama-queen... men truely detest these creatures.

Boys on the other hand, might put up with these ******* in their younger years. But that's simply because they put out easy.
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Old 03-29-2011, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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Have you never noticed that men seem to like the women that are like this? Is it because they like the control and need to please a women? I understand being a strong women but my personality just isnt like that. I can be one but it takes alot!
In my experience, the ladies who get called ******* are usuallly just women who have zero tolerance for BS, and are completely comfortable with being disliked.
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Old 03-29-2011, 11:07 AM
 
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Have you never noticed that men seem to like the women that are like this? Is it because they like the control and need to please a women? I understand being a strong women but my personality just isnt like that. I can be one but it takes alot!
This speaks to your perception and not reality.

If you are not finding the guy you want then you need to look inward at what you are doing wrong and can improve upon yourself and not looking for an external source of blame.
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Old 03-29-2011, 11:10 AM
 
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I'd take a woman who is pleasant and sweet but average-looking than a rude woman with jaw-dropping looks.
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Old 03-29-2011, 11:19 AM
 
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Have you never noticed that men seem to like the women that are like this? Is it because they like the control and need to please a women? I understand being a strong women but my personality just isnt like that. I can be one but it takes alot!
Men do not like b*tches, per se. Men like women who are hot, and women who are hot have far more leeway to be b*tches, and get away with it.

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this is like the threads where the guys ask, "why do all women like guys that are jerks"? silly question. sorry you're having trouble getting dates.
i'm positive i'll get flamed by someone for this, but i don't think it is as simple as an apples to apples comparison.

in my opinion, women are actually attracted to a small level of "jerk" behavior , coming from men. It's a balance, no question, but nobody can sit here and tell me that women aren't attracted to jerks, and have me take them seriously, because I've seen way too much that contradicts that story. I've seen average men draw in very attractive women, on the basis of sheer dominating, controlling, ass hole behavior alone.

However, there is no level of b*tchy female behavior that men find attractive. I have never seen anything to indicate that any man wants that, even in miniscule levels. I've never seen men who were drawn to it; I've only seen men who tolerate it, if she has some other qualities that make up for her attitude.

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Old 03-29-2011, 11:25 AM
 
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I doubt it is men generically. But some beta and omega males like that kind of controlling domaneering woman,
much the same way some women go after bad boy, rude types. I guess it is the unpredictable excitement with
a lack of self esteem. Just sayin'.
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