Am I the only one that finds this incredibly sexy? (issues, physically)
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I guess the word sexy means different things to different people. To me, sexy doesn't equate to sex. Sexy means attractive and alluring, it can be an action. It can be something that radiates confidence. It can be many things for me.
I think saying sexy is overused. All these things you describe as sexy to you doesn't mean that to me. It could be a generation thing though. If you are young, the media thinks everything is sexy from a model of a car to eating a burger. Sex sells and makes people think that sexy is cool.
Two men hugging, kissing or holding hands, to me, means friendship or a bond with a member of your family. Nothing sexy about that. Just like if I had a sister and we kissed and held hands in public, that would not be sexy to me. (I'm sure guys that saw us doing that would certainly see that as sexy). But to me that is love but not sexy love or any of the meanings which you describe as love.
But everyone is different in viewpoints and ideas and that's great. It would be boring if we all thought the same.
I guess you would be jumping my bones. I have wrestled before (freestyle and Greco roman) and I am half Moroccan so that has been passed down to me to "kiss" each other on the cheek 3-4 times.
Honestly, one of the little things that I like about living in Paris is how my French guy friends behave around each other. They kiss each other on the cheek when they meet and leave, they're more physically affectionate with each other (not holding hands, but more "arm around the shoulders," hugging, etc)... All while being your standard early-20s heterosexual male horndogs. I think it's kind of nice that they can be openly affectionate with their friends without worrying about "looking gay."
Honestly, one of the little things that I like about living in Paris is how my French guy friends behave around each other. They kiss each other on the cheek when they meet and leave, they're more physically affectionate with each other (not holding hands, but more "arm around the shoulders," hugging, etc)... All while being your standard early-20s heterosexual male horndogs. I think it's kind of nice that they can be openly affectionate with their friends without worrying about "looking gay."
I love that about other countries! I love that people can be free to be who they are without the fear of people pegging them as gay.
I guess the word sexy means different things to different people. To me, sexy doesn't equate to sex. Sexy means attractive and alluring, it can be an action. It can be something that radiates confidence. It can be many things for me.
I'm afraid that if I see "attractive" or "alluring", that's what I call it. Sexy isn't a term I use a lot.
In some cultures, it's the norm to greet with two or three kisses on each cheek (Middle East, Spain), even for men. I've always found it incredibly sexy when two seemingly masculine, strong men greet each other with kisses...I don't know why but it's just so hot lol. Does any other girl find this sexy too? I think it ties along with the combination of sensitive and strong qualities in a man that a lot of girls find alluring. I just find it odd that this turns me on so much lol.
I never thought of it that way, but now that you mention it.......
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