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If he is always telling "small lies" the two of you have BIG PROBLEMS! I have never understood why people lie about such small things...if he will lie to you about small things he will lie about anything....
Yea I know. thats my thought process exactly.
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Originally Posted by kahskye
I think you already know the answer. Do you really want to be starting a life w/ someone who is dishonest w/ you?
I agree.
I confronted him about the message from the wow friend just now and he is still lying to me. That's the worst part, and hes sitting here trying to turn it around on me being mean and unreasonable.
And to the person who said, its just a small lie and everyone has done that. Yes I know. But when confronted by my significant other, I'm not going to adamantly lie about it when there is clear evidence against me. ya know?
This guy is a perfect stranger and he's inviting him to be IN the wedding party. He's never mentioned him at all and suddenly he's one of his best buddies???
I confronted him about the message from the wow friend just now and he is still lying to me. That's the worst part, and hes sitting here trying to turn it around on me being mean and unreasonable.
And to the person who said, its just a small lie and everyone has done that. Yes I know. But when confronted by my significant other, I'm not going to adamantly lie about when there is clear evidence against me. ya know?
He is still lying *AFTER* being confronted?? Please tell me you see little red flags all over the place!
Seems like WOW and maybe even his new friend have more priority than you do w/ him. It's best to be finding this out now before the marriage. Little lies have a way of digging themsevles into deep holes turning into big lies.
Also, does he have friends in real life he passed over in favor of the other guy?
I don't know, I could sort of understand him being embarrassed about his true relationship with the guy, but to lie about it is a bad move. I would probably see it more as an action that says you need to give him more time to mature and that he's not ready for marriage yet (post pone wedding).
This guy is a perfect stranger and he's inviting him to be IN the wedding party. He's never mentioned him at all and suddenly he's one of his best buddies???
I'm sorry, that is just bizzare to me.
Yeah, something is not right there. There's more to that relationship then just a WOW friend. (What is WOW?) And for this person to come cross country to be in a wedding that he doesn't know the person or ever meet in person??? Something is not right. I would NOT marry this person at all. Does he not have real friends that live around you that he could ask to be a groomsmen? And if he lies all the time, he'll continue lying even after you get married.
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