Over reacting about lies? (wife, how to, man, therapist)
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Hi everyone,
So while making a guest list for our wedding, my fiance mentions inviting someone I've never heard of and asking him to be a groomsman. I say, uh ok whatever. and when he sends me the official list, for curiosity's sake i look this guy up on facebook. Come to find out hes about 13 years older than us, and lives half way across the country. When i ask my fiancee about it, he says, "i met him in high school, and now play WOW with him"
I now know this is a lie too. Fiance sent him a message saying i didn't want him there or something. So this guy sends me a facebook message, saying sorry "i know its awkward for you to want someone to come when he only knows me from WOW."
I'm furious. I'm sick of lies. It always little lies with him. Especially when its such a stupid thing to lie about to begin with. I'm about to call it quits. My question is, am i over reacting? Its not what it was over, but that he lied to begin with and when he had the opportunity to tell the truth he still didn't.
I never date anyone who is into WOW or heavily involved in gaming. They live in a fantasy world and their addiction can be harder to overcome than alcohol or drugs.
Hi everyone,
So while making a guest list for our wedding, my fiance mentions inviting someone I've never heard of and asking him to be a groomsman. I say, uh ok whatever. and when he sends me the official list, for curiosity's sake i look this guy up on facebook. Come to find out hes about 13 years older than us, and lives half way across the country. When i ask my fiancee about it, he says, "i met him in high school, and now play WOW with him"
I now know this is a lie too. Fiance sent him a message saying i didn't want him there or something. So this guy sends me a facebook message, saying sorry "i know its awkward for you to want someone to come when he only knows me from WOW."
I'm furious. I'm sick of lies. It always little lies with him. Especially when its such a stupid thing to lie about to begin with. I'm about to call it quits. My question is, am i over reacting? Its not what it was over, but that he lied to begin with and when he had the opportunity to tell the truth he still didn't.
To be honest, u have to take it into account with the whole picture. Is the rest of your relationship good? is he willing to work on his wow obsession? His habitual lying is a serious problem.
His fiancee' said he tells lies all the time and she is getting tired of it....how hard is it for someone to tell the truth? Seriously...
Frankly, I dont think it is hard at all. But if ease or difficulty were the only factor, the Devil would have never invented lies...Lol
I believe it is just the desire to avoid a consequence or to intrigue. Just my take on it.
Yeah, something is not right there. There's more to that relationship then just a WOW friend. (What is WOW?) And for this person to come cross country to be in a wedding that he doesn't know the person or ever meet in person??? Something is not right. I would NOT marry this person at all. Does he not have real friends that live around you that he could ask to be a groomsmen? And if he lies all the time, he'll continue lying even after you get married.
Poor judgement in forming attachments with strangers
Failing to involve you in major decisions
Showing all the signs of being a grade-A loser.
I really hope you will reconsider spending the rest of your life with this guy...
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