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Old 04-13-2011, 05:54 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Some men always think a woman wants him.

Hey, have you heard the new "Prince" song. OMGosh, she wants me.

Maybe she was sharing music.

Buddy, please. What's the song.
Um, I'm not a "buddy." Maybe she was sharing music but it was the way it was done that made me wonder--she really wanted me to hear that particular song and the song was "You don't know me." One thing I wonder though--if she was hitting on me, what kind of vibes have I been sending out that would make her think it was safe to do so? Anyway, the point of this post was not to tell the world that wow, someone wants me as to wonder how to handle it if she does? I would never embarrass someone but I myself am embarrassed and I certainly won't be telling anyone at work about it.
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Old 04-13-2011, 07:04 PM
 
Location: The High Seas
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OK, not the T.I version of that song title. Can't print here without getting banned.
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Old 04-13-2011, 07:07 PM
 
Location: South FL
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Maybe she was just trying to cheer you up...Either way, just act like nothing happened.

BTW, glanced at your profile, did anyone ever tell you that you look like Meryl Streep?
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Old 04-13-2011, 09:52 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Maybe she was just trying to cheer you up...Either way, just act like nothing happened.

BTW, glanced at your profile, did anyone ever tell you that you look like Meryl Streep?
LOL, all the time but it's the pic I think b/c I don't get told that very often IRL. Yeah, I agree--playing dumb is the best option I think. I've done it before.
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Old 04-13-2011, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Not Nowhere
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Sometimes (most of the time) a song is just a song.
Had the song been "My Neck, My Back", I'm sure it would have been more than just a song.
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Old 04-13-2011, 11:52 PM
 
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Had the song been "My Neck, My Back", I'm sure it would have been more than just a song.

ahahaha...x rated!! I can't believe anyone would remember that song! I was a small child when it came out.
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Old 04-14-2011, 12:45 AM
 
Location: Austintown, OH
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Maybe it was a come on.....

To save embarrassment for all involved, though... feign ignorance towards it.

If she tries to push it, tell her you are not interested.

If she never mentions it, she got the hint, or, wasn't really interested to begin with.
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Old 04-14-2011, 04:05 AM
 
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Who's the singer?

Just let her know that you don't swing that way.
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Old 04-14-2011, 06:20 AM
 
Location: Maryland
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Um, I'm not a "buddy." Maybe she was sharing music but it was the way it was done that made me wonder--she really wanted me to hear that particular song and the song was "You don't know me." One thing I wonder though--if she was hitting on me, what kind of vibes have I been sending out that would make her think it was safe to do so? Anyway, the point of this post was not to tell the world that wow, someone wants me as to wonder how to handle it if she does? I would never embarrass someone but I myself am embarrassed and I certainly won't be telling anyone at work about it.
Did you say your age? There wasn't a vibe. Single people talk/flirt with single people. I thought that was the formula.

She's a single woman and may have saw something she liked in you...if she's flirting. Like I said, some men assume women want them. She touches your back or shoulder...she wants me or I can bang her, if I want.

Maybe she wants you or maybe not. You are worked up over nothing. Has she said anything? Is she flirting with you? Is she talking within your space? Unwanted touching?

There's a guy on my job. He's a very close talker. I thought he was flirting. On further investigation, he's a close talker to everyone. You know what I said to myself. Oh, my bad.
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Old 04-14-2011, 06:22 AM
 
Location: Maryland
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Had the song been "My Neck, My Back", I'm sure it would have been more than just a song.
Nope, "I want your sex". Clear and straight forward message.
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