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I got one. This is more for online, even before you meet. "Send me your facebook." It's technically not a question, but why do you assume I use facebook and second, no you can not see all kinds of personal info on me, my friends and photos, if I did happen to use facebook.
1. "Salary?"
2. "So, what are your fetishes?"
3. "Any diseases I need to know about?"
4. "Have you accepted Jesus Christ as your personal savior?"
5. "Tell me about your past girlfriends/boyfriends/spouse."
6. "What's your astrological sign?" (Only to keep from being seen as a completely vacuous nitwit)
7. "Is that your real hair?"
8. "Do you like porn?"
9. "Ummm....I'm a little short on cash. Can you pick up the check for me?"
10. "Wanna wrassle?"
11. "Where did you get that ridiculous accent?"
12. "Do you always dress like that?"
13. "How could you believe anything that stupid?"
14. "Would you mind if I investigated you on google?"
15. "How many children do you want?"
I got one. This is more for online, even before you meet. "Send me your facebook." It's technically not a question, but why do you assume I use facebook and second, no you can not see all kinds of personal info on me, my friends and photos, if I did happen to use facebook.
Agreed!!This too comes up a lot in even social situations..many folks just want to increase their friend numbers.Why this "OMG I cant belive you don't facebook!" I have a friend who said this too me exactly, despite knowing him 20 years and seeing him regularly.
A big pet peeve of mine is personal first date questions. I don't know if I'm weird or if it's a normal pet peeve.
Questions I don't like answering are "So are you close to your parents?" or "When was your last relationship?" They are legitimate questions if you are planning on getting into a relationship and have been out with them a few times, but for first dates I feel like they are basically strangers or acquaintances. It's odd to me to ask such personal questions to a person that you have a good chance of never seeing again.
Anyway, for you other more private people, what do you feel is too personal to ask on a first date and how do you respond if asked?
If I'm willing to commit to a first date, I'm as willing to commit to forever. I just don't want to get married. But I would consider it to be an exclusive relationship.
To me it all depends on the chemistry between you and the person you're on the date with. It also depends on the tone and purpose of the questioning. If it feels too much like an interrogation or job interview, then the probing questions may seem tedious or invasive. If that person seems genuinely curious and isn't afraid to open up herself, then I wouldn't mind the questions as much.
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