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That is creepy! And bizarre. And way TMI for someone you don't know. Online dating is not an instant relationship, you don't even know this person.
If someone sent me that, I would assume he wants sex right away, when he is talking about kissing, back walking, if he wants that, call an escort service, they will send someone right over.
It is better to just try to be a "normal" person, and write back you are looking forward to meeting her for coffe some time. Then, she can meet you, and be creeped out. Then tell us what weird stuff you said at that meeting, and we will attempt to correct your personality deficits at that time.
You have health insurance at your job? You would benefit from therapy, maybe medication. Seek treatment.
Look, maybe you didn't intend it to sound like a fetish, but when this girl wrote back with, "Creepy, TMI" and you've got half a dozen people saying the same thing, you would do well to listen. No, it doesn't mean you're a perv, but you should consider that what you intended could have been easily misconstrued.
Relationships (of any kind) need to come with a natural flow of increased intimacy. You introduce yourself with a handshake and a, "Hi my name is Bob." Introducing yourself by flashing your junk and talking about how you're estranged from your parents is too much, too soon. Even if it wasn't sexual, it was too much personal information when she just barely knew anything about you.
When dating, show little bits at a time. Fun facts, light things. The stuff about the nachos and cafes was fine. Whenever guys write "I like kissing and cuddling" it makes me roll my eyes. That comes off as clingy and desperate. It also assumes too much. Who has said they even want to kiss you? There's something to be said for keeping a bit of mystery, for not sprawling it all out on the table before she'll even give you her email (for goodness sakes) and leaving something to be discovered as you go along.
That is creepy! And bizarre. And way TMI for someone you don't know. Online dating is not an instant relationship, you don't even know this person.
If someone sent me that, I would assume he wants sex right away, when he is talking about kissing, back walking, if he wants that, call an escort service, they will send someone right over.
It is better to just try to be a "normal" person, and write back you are looking forward to meeting her for coffe some time. Then, she can meet you, and be creeped out. Then tell us what weird stuff you said at that meeting, and we will attempt to correct your personality deficits at that time.
You have health insurance at your job? You would benefit from therapy, maybe medication. Seek treatment.
Maybe it was different but to delete her pofile was even more ODD
Maybe it was different but to delete her pofile was even more ODD
Nah, she'll probably put up another one, just with a different handle or something, and avoid you this time.
Or maybe you just really creeped her out.
In any case, stop worrying about what she does. You two will not be together so the point is moot. Worry about yourself and what to do differently the next time around.
Nah, she'll probably put up another one, just with a different handle or something, and avoid you this time.
Or maybe you just really creeped her out.
In any case, stop worrying about what she does. You two will not be together so the point is moot. Worry about yourself and what to do differently the next time around.
I do know I'm no longer wasting time with women who want to exchanges messages online. My new limit is 5 messages. I sent that WEIRDO 9 messages and that was far too many.
I can understand her not wanting to talk to me anymore but to leave the site completely?-lol Because of that? And I think 2n is goofy because it would be hard not to laugh if a woman was tickling my neck with her toes
Call me crazy, but cuddle and kiss, tickle your neck with her toes?! and walk on your back?! I'd sever contact too. Oh, and I bought my first cell phone in 2002 or 2003. Or maybe even 1998.
Here is a proper list:
1. I enjoy sporting events as long as my date does.
2. I like picnics and doing things on the spur of the moment.
3. I can be a jeans kind of guy or dress up in a suit.
4. I am easy going and flexible.
5. Likes to have fun and experience new adventures.
6. Likes to travel.
7. Music is one of my greatest interests and would like to go out on the town and hear some great music at a club.
8. Looking for someone who is not superficial yet knows how to turn on the charm.
9. I'm hard working and career oriented.
10. Most of all just looking to have fun, maybe more, and put myself out there.
I do know I'm no longer wasting time with women who want to exchanges messages online. My new limit is 5 messages. I sent that WEIRDO 9 messages and that was far too many.
We met yesterday and been going back and forth on email on the site. So I gave her my email to contact me but she insisted on communicating on the site. So I sent her 10 little goofy/interesting facts about me
1. I like to cuddle and kiss
2. I like a woman to tickle my neck with her feet
3. like a woman to walk on my back
4. I'm a night owl
5. I bought my first cell phone in 2010
6.I like to read old magazines from the 70's
7. my favorite snack is nachos and cheese
8.I don't like meatloaf
9. I like to talk on the phone
10. I love going to cafe's
She sent a message back saying that it was TMI and that she was creelped out?????????????? I mean 2 and 3 is a litrtle goofy but besides that what was wrong with my list? She del.eted her profile right she told me she was creeped out. I'm confised, this is bizzarre
Maybe it was your grammar and spelling. Maybe she was an English teacher.
1. I enjoy sporting events as long as my date does.
2. I like picnics and doing things on the spur of the moment.
3. I can be a jeans kind of guy or dress up in a suit.
4. I am easy going and flexible.
5. Likes to have fun and experience new adventures.
6. Likes to travel.
7. Music is one of my greatest interests and would like to go out on the town and hear some great music at a club.
8. Looking for someone who is not superficial yet knows how to turn on the charm.
9. I'm hard working and career oriented.
10. Most of all just looking to have fun, maybe more, and put myself out there.
I'm sorry, but even his list has better chances of catching my attention. This one is soooo boring and full of sooo many tired cliches, I'd doze off.
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and walk on your back?! I'd sever contact too. Oh, and I bought my first cell phone in 2002 or 2003. Or maybe even 1998.
