Why do nerdy men think they can't get a lady? (boyfriend, girlfriend)
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No one would date a neet.
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The type of nerd I was referring to was the type that has a job at least.
I do not consider kids living with their parents and playing video games to really be nerds. You do not usually learn computer languages that way, or gain much experience operating a nuclear reactor. I would have to assume that lazy people doing that likely do not have a college degree.
It is hard to get a nerd job without at least a B.S. degree.
It's not that I can't get a lady, I just don't think I have a chance with pretty ladies. Average to above average is all I'm shooting for. When your nerdy, you got to accept the fact, pretty ladies are going to look twice at the sexy man before they look at the slightly over weight nerd...
Above average isn't pretty?
People's standards are strange today.
Above average isn't pretty?
People's standards are strange today.
Look at it this way. I consider an above average person to be just cute. Average is just acceptable, but nothing special. Pretty is probably out of my league sadly lol. I guess my way version of pretty is what most other guys think is "hot", but you wouldn't catch me dead saying that!
Look at it this way. I consider an above average person to be just cute. Average is just acceptable, but nothing special. Pretty is probably out of my league sadly lol. I guess my way version of pretty is what most other guys think is "hot", but you wouldn't catch me dead saying that!
Seriously, it wasn't that long ago that people were either ugly or not ugly. These scales of 1 to 10 with increments of .02 and leagues and hawt and fugly, oh my.
When I was a poor college student I hardly ever dated. But after I graduated, and got a job as a highly-paid software engineer, I had no problem getting dates.
Raena I think you are around my generation. When I was in high school there were 3 categories. You were either a jock, a brainiac or a nerd. Nerds would never get a girl. Brainiacs stuck to themselves, one good reason for that were the brainiacs were among 2 stereotypical cultures so they basically dated among their own. Finally there were the jocks. Now they got all the girls. If a jock earned his school jacket he could name his girl.
Seems so silly looking back doesn't it.
It really does. I would take the nerd over the Jock. LOL Making me feel so old.
Seriously, it wasn't that long ago that people were either ugly or not ugly. These scales of 1 to 10 with increments of .02 and leagues and hawt and fugly, oh my.
Sometimes I'm really glad to be old.
In the dark every girl is a 10.
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