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If the guy is turned on then it doesn't sound like he considers it cheating? In which case it's between the two of them and how their relationship works.
I'm pretty sure my SO would consider it cheating, and therefore a deal breaker. And I'm pretty sure he gets totally turned on by the thought of me with another woman.
The issue with cheating is that it erodes/destroys trust. Doesn't really matter who you're cheating with...lying and sneaking around is lying and sneaking around regardless of the details.
If it's some sort of arrangement you've cleared with your primary partner, or something they've requested due to a fetish, it's not cheating. It's just part of your relationship. "Cheating" implies dishonesty and secrecy.
I've heard of men getting turned on by their wives cheating with another woman. They should be ashamed of themselves.
I personally believe a married person cheating with the same sex is as bad as cheating with the opposite sex. What do you think?
You are talking about two different things
First of all, cheating with a same sex partner is no better or worse than cheating with an opposite sex person - it's all still cheating.
As for any man who would enjoy watching his wife with another woman - that's not cheating if he knows and encourages the behavior. It's a perversion of the marriage vows as I understand them, but you can't really call it cheating since he knows and approves.
I agree that it's still cheating, unless she has permission. For the sake of argument, let's say I was turned on by it. It would still be cheating, even so, IMO, and I'd be highly displeased. My take is that if there's something my wife or g/f wants that I can't provide, she should discuss it with me first. I'm very open-minded and willing to consider unconventional arrangements, but I am NOT willing to be taken for granted or my opinions and concerns dismissed without consultation.
I've heard of men getting turned on by their wives cheating with another woman. They should be ashamed of themselves.
I personally believe a married person cheating with the same sex is as bad as cheating with the opposite sex. What do you think?
Cheating is cheating, but I don't think anyone should be ashamed of being turned on by their wife cheating with another woman (or man). It's not like they can help it. Plus some guys get turned on by their wife cheating on them with another man. Weird but it's not our place to judge what their reaction should be.
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