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I only moisturize the leather seats once every few months. It was just an example of things I do.
Robee - I keep on whining here, because we are still discussing the same topic over 14 pages now. Withdrawing from the discussion now is rude in my opinion. A few pages back I wrote down what I am going to do about the situation and my husband just came from the doggy walk and said, he wants to try the list thing again.
He just reminded me of the list and I said, there is no list, the two things he just fixed are all he needed to do. He was surprised and I said, yes, it was 10 minutes of chores that we were fighting about for weeks. And he agreed it was BS from him to fight that for so long.
he said to just write a list in the future and he will do it within a week. That sounds good. Did not work in the past, but we'll see.
My husband was not spoiled as a kid. His mom was a single mom raising 3 kids. He did chores at home and hated them. I don't think he did alot, there was a step dad in the picture at some times. Since he did not grow up with a steady parenting, I was patient. But after 6 years being together, he figured it out. I even make it easy for him and do most myself and tell him EXACTLY, what I would like him to do, so there is no misunderstanding.
Since you guys get tired of my whining and my husband - once again - promised to change, I'll like to close the thread and drink a Weizen
Violett - I don't appreciate that you think you can tell me how I am. I am not an American, I write things different and I don't think you have the right to judge that I am superficial after reading some of my posts.
No,he has no friends. He is difficult (surprise) and most of the coworkers at the same rank are way younger then him (surprise) and he apparently can't be friends with older one's because of the rank issue.
No interests other than cars, videogames, shopping.
Yes, he listens to my worries and stresses and yes, he ignores it then.
We lived in Mannheim drei jahre. I was an Army brat going to high school. We had lots of FUn going to festivals & traveling around Germany playing high school sports.
Violett - I don't appreciate that you think you can tell me how I am. I am not an American, I write things different and I don't think you have the right to judge that I am superficial after reading some of my posts.
No,he has no friends. He is difficult (surprise) and most of the coworkers at the same rank are way younger then him (surprise) and he apparently can't be friends with older one's because of the rank issue.
No interests other than cars, videogames, shopping.
Yes, he listens to my worries and stresses and yes, he ignores it then.
Liking someone because they take you on "exciting trips" is superficial.
Staying with someone because there's "much worse out there" and you "don't want to be alone" is based on fear.
It doesn't matter if you're American, German or from Mars. It is what it is; culture is irrelevant.
You say he accepts you (fine) and that he listens, except that from every single thing you've told us, it doesn't sound like he's listening or understanding where you're coming from at all.
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