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Old 06-20-2011, 07:10 PM
 
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How much does one need to keep practicing after getting good at something? How does that account for so much practice and not getting good at something? Why do some women complain about men who don't have much practice, if nobody is perfect?

But, we digress. Would many guys have a problem if they have less compatible sex drives than a woman, if they are not the jealous type?
The most common factoid I've heard about practice is that you need roughly 10,000 hours of mindful practice to master something. Now, hardly anyone outside of the adult entertainment industry is going to clock in that kind of airtime.

IME, and this is strictly IME, the women and men who complain about MOTAS who don't have much practice are themselves bad about communicating what works or doesn't work for them. Part of mindful practice is feedback, so you can correct what you're doing. Their complaints are mostly frustration, but complaining isn't helping anyone improve.

Back to the original topic....

Personally, I wouldn't mind some difference in sex drive. But if it's a major difference, that might be a problem, just because it would eventually be really frustrating for both of us.
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:29 PM
 
Location: Pa
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And still posting on the Relationships Forum! LOL

It's ok I was recently going out on a date with my son's hot coach, but didn't last. I'm here posting again.
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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In my experience, not always.
We've all had bad sexual experiences, haven't we?
Oh gawd yes when I was with this virgin, trying to be nice but he sucked at it.
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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It's ok I was recently going out on a date with my son's hot coach, but didn't last. I'm here posting again.
Damn, it sounded promising! Are you still a proponent of asking guys out...?
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:34 PM
 
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Oh gawd yes when I was with this virgin, trying to be nice but he sucked at it.
Yeah, well, can you really fault him? The first time you drove a car were you brilliant at it? I certainly wasn't. (I never knew a transmission could make noises like that.)
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Damn, it sounded promising! Are you still a proponent of asking guys out...?
Oh yeah I do the asking since men are freaken wussies in asking a gal out. So far as I have met. He was promising until he had a clingy personality. I understand why guys hate female clingers!
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yeah, well, can you really fault him? The first time you drove a car were you brilliant at it? I certainly wasn't. (I never knew a transmission could make noises like that.)
Lmao! I was nervous yes. And yes I found out many things. Like how men get too excited! ahahaha
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:48 PM
 
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Lmao! I was nervous yes. And yes I found out many things. Like how men get too excited! ahahaha
Show up naked and bring beer and chips?
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:49 PM
 
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Oh yeah I do the asking since men are freaken wussies in asking a gal out. So far as I have met. He was promising until he had a clingy personality. I understand why guys hate female clingers!
Yeah I hate clingons too. That weird forehead of theres is a real turn off.
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Old 06-20-2011, 07:51 PM
 
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Show up naked and bring beer and chips?
If you want a man to sprout an instant boner, that's the best way to do it.
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