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I'll fully admit: sometimes I just can't pick up little hints or small things that would make me think there's attraction from her.
Honestly sometimes it's best to just be blunt with me. Sometimes "Well I've always wanted to go to the movies..." Should be " Hey, wanna go see a movie!"
I'll fully admit: sometimes I just can't pick up little hints or small things that would make me think there's attraction from her.
Honestly sometimes it's best to just be blunt with me. Sometimes "Well I've always wanted to go to the movies..." Should be " Hey, wanna go see a movie!"
Could you imagine if we spoke guy language!!!!
Lady-I think that trash is a little stinky dear.
or Lady turned to man-language
Take out that damn trash, if you want sex tonight!
Lady-The car sounds funny.
Man-Language-The car sounds like shat freaken get it fixed ya bum.
Lady-Oh that was nice your fav. sports player won some championship.
Man-language-Who the F cares.
Lady-I think I need some cuddling to nite.
Man-language- Wanna bump uglies?
Lady-I think that trash is a little stinky dear.
or Lady turned to man-language
Take out that damn trash, if you want sex tonight!
Lady-The car sounds funny.
Man-Language-The car sounds like shat freaken get it fixed ya bum.
Lady-Oh that was nice your fav. sports player won some championship.
Man-language-Who the F cares.
Lady-I think I need some cuddling to nite.
Man-language- Wanna bump uglies?
That's how men will process these, actually. Or many of them.
I bet if you tag the phrase "Or no sex tonight" on any small favor you ask your man to do, he'll probably get up and do it because he's getting sex for doing something he should do anyway.
That's how men will process these, actually. Or many of them.
I bet if you tag the phrase "Or no sex tonight" on any small favor you ask your man to do, he'll probably get up and do it because he's getting sex for doing something he should do anyway.
Yes, she was sitting next to me. When I was about to leave, she touched my knee as her way of saying goodbye.
And she showed other signs of being into me. It's hard to explain, but I could sense it.
I think she views me as being so much younger than her, but that could be a good thing. There are men her age that are attracted to girls my age. And it's not unheard of for a woman her age to be into guys my age.
But you could be right. It's possible that she just views me as a kid and nothing more.
It seems that her touching of the knee was a farewell gesture. Just like how people hug and kiss as a greeting and farewell, it doesn't imply anything beyond social manners.
I'm not discounting that she was attracted to you, but based on that alone is not sufficient evidence... what others signs of being into you did she show? And are you just curious if she was or do you want to take this somewhere?
Yes, she was sitting next to me. When I was about to leave, she touched my knee as her way of saying goodbye.
And she showed other signs of being into me. It's hard to explain, but I could sense it.
I think she views me as being so much younger than her, but that could be a good thing. There are men her age that are attracted to girls my age. And it's not unheard of for a woman her age to be into guys my age.
But you could be right. It's possible that she just views me as a kid and nothing more.
Yeah, that would be my guess. Of course, my daughter's first and last boyfriend said that he didn't feel like we liked him, because we're always huggy, touchy with each other and wasn't with him. So? We started being more affectionate to him, started giving him hugs when he showed up and left, kissed him on his cheek on his birthday, etc. The next thing you know, he told my daughter I wanted to f**k him...BECAUSE of that very same affection. Of course, it also turned out that he was mentally ILL!
Many people touch. Never assume that the person WANTS you. You could end up looking like a complete fool. If you think someone is attracted to you, then you need to TALK about it.
That's how men will process these, actually. Or many of them.
I bet if you tag the phrase "Or no sex tonight" on any small favor you ask your man to do, he'll probably get up and do it because he's getting sex for doing something he should do anyway.
It's funny....yes, that's how men will process those statements, but if a woman actually talked to him in "man-talk" on a regular basis, most men would be offended. Whether they want to admit it or not, men who are into women, want a woman to talk like one....not incessantly, not yammering, but more gentle speech.
I LOVE your last paragraph...so honest and so true!! LOL
It seems that her touching of the knee was a farewell gesture. Just like how people hug and kiss as a greeting and farewell, it doesn't imply anything beyond social manners.
I'm not discounting that she was attracted to you, but based on that alone is not sufficient evidence... what others signs of being into you did she show? And are you just curious if she was or do you want to take this somewhere?
Like I said, it's hard to explain. But when she talked to me, I could sense that she had a thing for me.
I'd be open to the idea of taking this somewhere.
I know of someone that just turned 23 and he's dating a woman in her early 30s.
And there was an even older woman that made it more obvious she had a thing for me. This woman was 43. She stared at me a lot. And when they handed out condoms during class, they said they were giving us a few. They gave me 8 condoms and I said "That's more than a few." And this cougar said "You'll need them for later"
What's with these cougars being into me? Why can't I attract a girl my own age?
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