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Old 07-04-2011, 04:49 PM
 
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A married guy approached me and asked to take me out. Of course, I declined due to the obvious. He was so persistent and refused to take no for an answer. He went on saying that he was unhappy, right, every married man has used that excuse. To get him to go away, I eventually asked for his business card, which has his phone number on it. I don't go out with married men and would not want to participate in a "fantasy" relationship with one. How would it look if I texted him and asked to meet one of his single friends? Guys, what do you think his response would be? He seems to be a very successful businessman, maybe he has attractive, successful friends.
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Old 07-04-2011, 05:04 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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A married guy approached me and asked to take me out. Of course, I declined due to the obvious. He was so persistent and refused to take no for an answer. He went on saying that he was unhappy, right, every married man has used that excuse. To get him to go away, I eventually asked for his business card, which has his phone number on it. I don't go out with married men and would not want to participate in a "fantasy" relationship with one. How would it look if I texted him and asked to meet one of his single friends? Guys, what do you think his response would be? He seems to be a very successful businessman, maybe he has attractive, successful friends.
Don't go out with a married man.

There are too many single men in the world to date a married guy.

Your spirit suffers when you lower your standards. It's not your fault he's married, he made that choice.

He's looking for hot tail. You'll never measure up. Successful men with good jobs don't need that baggage. He wants sex.

Don't be desperate.
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Old 07-04-2011, 05:10 PM
 
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Don't go out with a married man.

There are too many single men in the world to date a married guy.

Your spirit suffers when you lower your standards. It's not your fault he's married, he made that choice.

He's looking for hot tail. You'll never measure up. Successful men with good jobs don't need that baggage. He wants sex.

Don't be desperate.
Common sense so early in a thread? Come on, you just ruined it for the rest of us. I was hoping at least 13 pages of popcorn worthy banter
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Old 07-04-2011, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Not far from Fairbanks, AK
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A married guy approached me and asked to take me out. Of course, I declined due to the obvious. He was so persistent and refused to take no for an answer. He went on saying that he was unhappy, right, every married man has used that excuse. To get him to go away, I eventually asked for his business card, which has his phone number on it. I don't go out with married men and would not want to participate in a "fantasy" relationship with one. How would it look if I texted him and asked to meet one of his single friends? Guys, what do you think his response would be? He seems to be a very successful businessman, maybe he has attractive, successful friends.
Just tell him that if he aver approaches you with the same ideas you will immediately tell his coworkers (or bosses) and wife about it, and he will leave you alone. If you write an e-mail telling him what you will do, then you can save a copy of it for future reference.
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Old 07-04-2011, 05:15 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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He seems to be a very successful businessman, maybe he has attractive, successful friends.
So you'd turn him down but ask him to set you up?

As much of a lout as he demonstrates himself to be, I wouldn't be surprised if he set you up with a similarly styled friend who will report back to him and his pack of friends on any "success" he has with you.

Lie down with dogs and you'll get up with fleas. Raise your standards of who you associate with and move on.
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Old 07-04-2011, 05:24 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Common sense so early in a thread? Come on, you just ruined it for the rest of us. I was hoping at least 13 pages of popcorn worthy banter
haaa! Listen, when I see common sense over anything I post it!

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Old 07-04-2011, 06:48 PM
 
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A married guy approached me and asked to take me out. Of course, I declined due to the obvious. He was so persistent and refused to take no for an answer. He went on saying that he was unhappy, right, every married man has used that excuse. To get him to go away, I eventually asked for his business card, which has his phone number on it. I don't go out with married men and would not want to participate in a "fantasy" relationship with one. How would it look if I texted him and asked to meet one of his single friends? Guys, what do you think his response would be? He seems to be a very successful businessman, maybe he has attractive, successful friends.
Email me his phone number. I will be glad to tell his wife what he is doing. LUCKY BASTARD! Has a WIFE but he doesn't appreciate it.
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Old 07-04-2011, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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LUCKY BASTARD! Has a WIFE but he doesn't appreciate it.
Don't be so sure, until you've slept in his bed. Heck, I'd have gladly given you my ex, as long as you promised to never bring her back!
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Old 07-04-2011, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Holiday, FL
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A married guy approached me and asked to take me out. Of course, I declined due to the obvious. He was so persistent and refused to take no for an answer. He went on saying that he was unhappy, right, every married man has used that excuse. To get him to go away, I eventually asked for his business card, which has his phone number on it. I don't go out with married men and would not want to participate in a "fantasy" relationship with one. How would it look if I texted him and asked to meet one of his single friends? Guys, what do you think his response would be? He seems to be a very successful businessman, maybe he has attractive, successful friends.
Well, I know I'm not that guy. Yes, I'm married, and if I had it to do over again, I wouldn't. At this point, even if I were single, I would not ask you out. Or any other woman. (and, NO, I am not into guys either) I simply won't have anything more to do with women. It's been too expensive and too disappointing. Frustrating, even.

Obviously, your guy has not been married long enough or he would look at you, admire, and turn and walk away. He hasn't learned yet. But, he will.
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Old 07-04-2011, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Texas
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He might be unhappy. He might be completely happy. What's not up for debate is this...he wants some tail. Period.
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