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Relax, eventually all will become clear to you and you'll have time to focus on more important issues
There are no MORE important issues - only AS important issues! IMO, of course.
Desire and frequency are individual things and most couples get into a pattern that works for them. It's seldom ideal for both, all the time. And it can vary with circumstances such as kids and jobs, etc. Couple A may be very content with 2 or 3 times a week. Couple B may feel 10 times a week is barely adequate.
How many married (or living together) guys don't want it every night? Are there any?
At 30? 40? 50? 60? years old?
I sense most wives don't want it every night so there might be unfulfilled desires sometimes.
I know that anecdotes don't evidence make. But the only two men I have ever known to make specific demands wrt frequency were abusive turds with the self esteem of garden slugs. They frequency was sucking a measure of appeasement for their terrible self esteem. Never mind loving give and take. They had no concept of give. Only of take.
Frequency in a relationship waxes and wanes based on everything that is going on. There are weeks when are having sex three and four times a day. And other times when we go a week or two without. Life happens. And if people are counting how many times per x time period, then well, it is not a relationship that I would want to be in.
There are no MORE important issues - only AS important issues! IMO, of course.[/b]
Desire and frequency are individual things and most couples get into a pattern that works for them. It's seldom ideal for both, all the time. And it can vary with circumstances such as kids and jobs, etc. Couple A may be very content with 2 or 3 times a week. Couple B may feel 10 times a week is barely adequate.
LOL, I know what you mean
But hopefully you got the point I was trying to make to the OP too
He comes across as an sex obsessed teenager who has yet to learn some important lessons, like:
a) what other people are doing in their relationships has NO IMPACT on him and his
OP, I would be curious to know what would be a good reason for you to go a few days or weeks without sex.
Say one of your parents or your wife parents passed away...would that be a good reason?
What if one of your kids became ill and was in the hospital.
What if your wife was in a car accident.
Life happens. Nothing in life is constant. Especially something like sex-which is a want, not a need.
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