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Would it come across as creepy if I told her she looks like one of the actresses on the show? I was thinking of saying something today, but I didn't. I thought it might come across as creepy that I was thinking of her when I was watching the show.
If you're not a creepy guy, I don't see why this remark would come off as creepy.
There's this cute cashier. She works at a place I frequent, so she recognizes me/knows who I am and sometimes we make small talk.
Yes, I have a thing for her. But I doubt anything will ever happen between us. For all I know, she could be taken.
Anyway, I was watching a show recently and I noticed that I think one of the actresses looks like her. I used to watch this show a lot, but that was before I knew this cashier, so I guess I never put two and two together until I started watching the show again.
Would it come across as creepy if I told her she looks like one of the actresses on the show? I was thinking of saying something today, but I didn't. I thought it might come across as creepy that I was thinking of her when I was watching the show.
I don't think it would be creepy at all. Geez, some of the posters are reading way too much into this. Work it into one of your casual conversations with her, and don't make a big deal out of it. She will likely be flattered.
I don't think it's creepy. I remember a senior guy at school who used to walk home the same way I did. One day he caught up with me and said "Did you know you look like Linda Ronstadt?"
He and I became really good friends after that. He was such a nice guy.
If you're chatting and you can work in a "hey, has anyone ever told you you look like xyz?" then it probably wouldn't be creepy. Just make sure that the celebrity you're comparing her to is flattering. Most women would appreciate being told they look like Scarlett Johannsen, not so much Kathy Bates.
^^^This.
In fact, I would find it entirely uncreepy, probably because I'm used to hearing something similar myself.
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Originally Posted by Raena77
Citadataguy You can say it. Or a simple "you know are beautiful" will work wonders. Say this smile and wink and walk away. She can either think that you are a weirdo or a very sweet guy. I personally like it.
See, now that would make me uncomfortable, and then I'd feel weird every time I saw him after that. Saying someone is beautiful indicates romantic or lustful feeling. Saying someone resembles someone else is neutral.
I don't think it's creepy. I remember a senior guy at school who used to walk home the same way I did. One day he caught up with me and said "Did you know you look like Linda Ronstadt?"
He and I became really good friends after that. He was such a nice guy.
The exception, not the rule.
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