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Old 08-27-2011, 07:02 PM
 
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i can't do it. i just texted a beeeeaautiful spanish girl i met a few weeks ago here in NYC (that LJBF'ed me) the following:

It's really hard for me to be friends with someone I'm attracted to. It's emasculating. I don't think I can see you anymore and I hope you understand. Wish you the best. Goodbye.


she txted back saying 'it's OK i understand. thanks for everything.'

IMHO i did The Right Thingâ„¢. what do you guys say?
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Old 08-27-2011, 07:06 PM
 
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i can't do it. i just texted a beeeeaautiful spanish girl i met a few weeks ago here in NYC (that LJBF'ed me) the following:

It's really hard for me to be friends with someone I'm attracted to. It's emasculating. I don't think I can see you anymore and I hope you understand. Wish you the best. Goodbye.


she txted back saying 'it's OK i understand. thanks for everything.'

IMHO i did The Right Thingâ„¢. what do you guys say?
Hell yea you did the right thing! You just saved yourself a lot of pain.
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Old 08-27-2011, 07:32 PM
 
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Ahhh.......When Harry met Sally!
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Old 08-27-2011, 07:48 PM
 
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Bravo for standing up and doing that. I agree with Ro, it might save you some heartache.
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Old 08-27-2011, 07:56 PM
 
Location: South FL
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i can't do it. i just texted a beeeeaautiful spanish girl i met a few weeks ago here in NYC (that LJBF'ed me) the following:

It's really hard for me to be friends with someone I'm attracted to. It's emasculating. I don't think I can see you anymore and I hope you understand. Wish you the best. Goodbye.


she txted back saying 'it's OK i understand. thanks for everything.'

IMHO i did The Right Thingâ„¢. what do you guys say?
Yes.
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Old 08-27-2011, 08:38 PM
 
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i can't do it. i just texted a beeeeaautiful spanish girl i met a few weeks ago here in NYC (that LJBF'ed me) the following:

It's really hard for me to be friends with someone I'm attracted to. It's emasculating. I don't think I can see you anymore and I hope you understand. Wish you the best. Goodbye.


she txted back saying 'it's OK i understand. thanks for everything.'

IMHO i did The Right Thingâ„¢. what do you guys say?
You did the right thing brother....believe me
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Old 08-27-2011, 08:39 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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If it's what is right for you, then you did the right thing.
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Old 08-27-2011, 08:40 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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You did the right thing, but the only thing I would have done differently is actually call her and tell her instead of text. Just my personal habit.


Good job.
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Old 08-27-2011, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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That'll do pig, that'll do (ending to Babe) - YouTube
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That'll do pighttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjQtzV9IZ0Q
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Old 08-27-2011, 09:10 PM
 
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I don't think it was a smart move... you basically gave her an "ultimatum"... you date me or we no longer friends... ha! I say she is the lucky one... hopefully she read between the lines... if I liked her enough, I would tell her that I like her and see if she was interested... I wouldn't be throwing out ultimatums... that sounds childish... especially someone you met only several weeks...
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