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Truthfully, you're not the problem. Most guys your size are 20-25% bodyfat easily. You're only 13%. Ditch your GF. Nothing good is going to come from this. And let's say you do get back into shape. Your GF will have your balls in the palm of her hand.
my father always told me leopards dont change their spots and its about some of the best advice i have ever received - it is unreasonble to try and change the person your dating - you either like them just as they are or move on - that is not to say that some people havent changed their life due to an earth shattering experience - i think i could understand her point if you were living an unhealthy lifestyle but thats not even the case -
Nahh, no Paleo. She actually eats fairly normally from what I can tell, but no sugar or crap like that. This thread is now irrelevant as I have decided not to talk to her anymore. She complained about my workout earlier this evening (regular powerlifting stuff), how it wasn't "challenging enough" or some crap. Done with that.
Typical crossfit tard. Should have invited her and her fellow cult members to try to do what you do and see how well that works out.
It sounds like you already live a healthy lifestyle, so she's not concerned about your health. It's just a physical preference on her part, and she is asking for something that's not really "in you." You're thinking of taking steroids to please her, or going on a diet that makes you weak and tired. You won't be able to sustain it.
She needs to get over it.
If you are already healthy(which apparently you very much are), then her preference and your don't match..I agree with Julia! If she can't be with you and enjoy you for you, then it's def not ment to be! Two months is better than 2 years and much easier to get over if needed!!
If you are already healthy(which apparently you very much are), then her preference and your don't match..I agree with Julia! If she can't be with you and enjoy you for you, then it's def not ment to be! Two months is better than 2 years and much easier to get over if needed!!
Good luck!!
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Tell her you'l lose the weight if she gets a boob job and butt implants
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do everything she says, learn everything u can, then move on.
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Maybe OP drinks too much free beer. Lol
I'd just like to point out, that this thread is 7 months old. Based on the OP's latest posts, he's already done with this woman. For all we know, he could have broken up with her not long after this issue.
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