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Old 10-06-2011, 10:40 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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Aren't you like 24 and working on your Medical school or something? I don't remember where I'm reading these stuff from.

Haha, NVM. It's from your personal ads.
Yes, but what the hell? Does that mean that I have no right to date or something? Sheeeesh!

And I'm 24 in 19 minutes
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Old 10-06-2011, 10:42 PM
 
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LOL. Who said I was whining? I just want a good, happy, healthy relationship. Is that so much to ask for? Maybe it is.....ha.
You sure as hell ask for it a lot.

And now you're bitter because you can't get any. Sad.
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Old 10-06-2011, 10:46 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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You sure as hell ask for it a lot.

And now you're bitter because you can't get any. Sad.
So what's the solution, then?

And isn't bitterness inevitable when you don't get what you want, repeatedly? Not ever? I'm not saying that it's something to be deserved, that someone absolutely HAS to have.....but just once? Come on. LOL.
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Old 10-06-2011, 10:48 PM
 
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Yes, but what the hell? Does that mean that I have no right to date or something? Sheeeesh!

And I'm 24 in 19 minutes
By all means, if you want to date go right ahead. I brought up your personal ads because that's where I got your information. Does it mean something else? You must be reading my post more than you should be.
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Old 10-06-2011, 10:57 PM
 
Location: Earth
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So what's the solution, then?

And isn't bitterness inevitable when you don't get what you want, repeatedly? Not ever? I'm not saying that it's something to be deserved, that someone absolutely HAS to have.....but just once? Come on. LOL.
Introspection, therapy...
You're the issue, no one else.
No one else is ever the issue in a person's life.
You choose to be bitter.
Let me guess, your parents coddled you and you never lost at any thing in your life before?

Did you always get a trophy?
Your parents did you no favor.
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Old 10-06-2011, 11:00 PM
 
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So what's the solution, then?

And isn't bitterness inevitable when you don't get what you want, repeatedly? Not ever? I'm not saying that it's something to be deserved, that someone absolutely HAS to have.....but just once? Come on. LOL.
Then create a another NEW thread: WHY CAN'T I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?
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Old 10-07-2011, 01:34 AM
 
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That, to me, says infinitely more about HER than HIM. And I would NEVER want to be around a "woman" like that.
If that is what you want. However, if she is getting what she wants, she is doing something right for herself. Why is that ability overlooked?

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However, what if, by doing this, I miss out on something that could have been good? You miss all the shots you don't take.
Because there is more than one way to meet a person. Sometimes that person just comes along while we live our lives to the best of our abilities.

Continue on with the introspection, you'll get there. Knowing what you can control and what you can't will get you there faster.

Happy Birthday!
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Old 10-07-2011, 02:00 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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Continue on with the introspection, you'll get there. Knowing what you can control and what you can't will get you there faster.

Happy Birthday!

Thanks! I really appreciate that!
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Old 10-07-2011, 03:04 AM
 
Location: SWUS
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Why would I be hostile and bitter towards the opposite sex? Any shortcomings in my dating life are pretty much all my problem and not someone else's. Does it bum me out sometimes? Yes. Is anyone else accountable? Not really.

Do I post 80 million threads on CD about it? No. I simply wait until I find someone else that I like, and let it go from there.
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Old 10-07-2011, 04:09 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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Why would I be hostile and bitter towards the opposite sex? Any shortcomings in my dating life are pretty much all my problem and not someone else's. Does it bum me out sometimes? Yes. Is anyone else accountable? Not really.

Do I post 80 million threads on CD about it? No. I simply wait until I find someone else that I like, and let it go from there.
One's own shortcomings certainly are their problem, but that doesn't mean that they deserve to be treated like crap by sub-par women. Or women that seem amazing at first & then turn out to be horrific by virtue of how they treat someone else.
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