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I've known some women who would take FOREVER. I've known other women who would be there in less than a minute. ..and all in between. Everybody is different.
Question came up last night with a mixed group of friends on what it takes to get their partner there! Some of the responses were minutes, some 10s of minutes or a half hour, and a few that don't get there at all. I brought up that I had an experience where the gf at the time required 2 solid hours to make her happy...one time I know theres so much variation in what it takes to satisfy your partner, but I think 2 hours straight going through every gyrations known to man kind is going above and beyond! And this was everytime, not once in a while.
Most everyone there agreed that this is just way too long and almost abnormal. Is it? Is that a fair assesment, men and Women?
When it stops being fun, it feels like work!!! I had that problem with my ex-husband. For the longest time I thought the problem was me, but realized I was quite healthy in that department and that the problem belonged to him, not me. After alot of talking over quite a period of time it turned our he was a homosexual in denial.
Like I said above, One O, no less then 2 hours. More than one drink made it worse, she said it made her less inhibited, but more numb She said she had not had one with another man before and could only get there by herself and that took quite a bit of time too. I believe it was normal for her, just not most.
I know as a guy Ive been there myself but it was always due to being tired or too much to drink etc.
So, Normal or Abnormal? There's so much variation in humen sexuality, I'm thinking normal, but on the outside edge.
If she can by her self, its because shes not relaxed with men or with you. Its psychological. If she relaxed and lost her inhibitions she would be able to sooner.
If I even tried to go 30 minutes with my wife, just on the foreplay part, I'd be in jail for murder. But it would take the funeral home 2 weeks to get the smile off her face.
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