GF is a bit too.....close. (marriage, men, single, kissing)
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I'm not trying to start anything here but.. I'm kinda confused as to why if your wanting your space and not have someone be clingy, why would you move in together?
I have to wonder how you ended up with somebody whose relationship style is so incompatible with yours. Did she give you some indication at some point that she was much more aloof and non-communicative regarding her feelings than she is? At some point, you became aware that she was this way, and it was probably before you were cohabiting. How did it reach this point, is my questions, since you are obviously quite incompatible personalities?
It is a lesson learned. Dr. Drew on Loveline said this, and it actually made sense. I'm not his fan or anything, but he does say some things that make sense. He was talking to a girl who always gets a bf becomes abusive at some point and is wondering why guys change and if he can change to be not abusive. He said she attracts and is attracted to abusive guys without her knowing it. He said she may want to see a therapist and evaluate her own life and relationship with others such as family members and get to the root cause of it all and break the pattern.
I would have to imagine there are reasons why these women are acting this way with you, and why you got together with them in the first place. There must be some things about them that attract you, you attract them. I'm no expert in this, so you have to somehow figure it out for yourself.
Sure you can break up and move on to another girl, but the result will probably be the same until you really evaluate everything else in your life.
In the end, it is really not the type of complaint a person would have about someone they love and adore. I would say to cut your losses and find someone more cold-hearted.
So a couple months ago you had a fight because your GF wanted to spend too much time with you, so you.... moved in?
Next fight maybe you will get married.
Honestly, she sounds like a nice, perfectly normal person. I didn't say "woman", I said "person", because that's how most good people treat each other.
If you don't like it, let her go.
You're complaints are "she likes to kiss", "she's polite and thanks me for things", "she thinks I'm cute".
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