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i was seeing this guy in a complicated non-relationship for almost a year, lost my virginity to him and basically after a lot of talking it ended because he "wasnt ready fora relationship".
So he lives with my best friend which makes things hard. And after about two weeks of non stop crying and self pity i finally decided i had to get on with it but now i see him all the time when i see my friend. He always just appears at gatherings I am at. And the thing is it doesnt feel different the way we are with each other.
He still texts me asking if i need help with moving and stuff and gets funny if i forget to say goodbye to him when i leave. He makes jokes about "what would i do if he started going out with my hous mat" then openly talks about people he has kissed in front of me until i ask him to stop then he says "sorry, sorry i didnt think i wont do it again". and hes been mentioning this other girls name alot, almost like he wants me to ask who she is.
The things is i still have feling for him and i do see him alot. I think about him all the time. but i KNOW it would never work, we are too different.
I just want to know what you think he feels about me? and if this is ever going to work as a friendship.
Prsonally i think he is doing all this to wind me up and make me think about things. what do you think?
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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What someone thinks about you shows in their every action, or lack, thereof. Don't kid yourself into thinking otherwise. The sooner you decide once and for all to move on, the sooner you'll be saying to yourself, "Wow! Why didn't I do this sooner?"
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313
He has had you under this curse for over a year now?
You need to avoid, and stop ALL contact, in order to move on!
That's right. That means going as far as avoiding the places you know he frequents. It'll be the best thing you've done for yourself since .... well....you fill in the blank.
Prsonally i think he is doing all this to wind me up and make me think about things. what do you think?
Personally I think you're probably right. Separate yourself from the circle he's in and move on. You can still see the people in the circle whose company you enjoy but avoid the big gatherings and find some new people and interests to occupy your time and broaden your horizons. All will be well soon!
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