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Old 11-07-2011, 06:32 PM
 
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Didn't we have something like that happen a few years back, someone was posting and then the spouse came on board about a year later and found the thread (or I guess it could have all been made up). Where's the vets on here, anyone remember?
Vaguely.

I have a good friend. But he's a selfish prick. He was married to a woman who was a neurotic, depressive, self-absorbed harpy. Neither one was a picnic, and we all knew divorce was inevitable. But, guess what. If you talked to either one, IT WASN'T THEIR FAULT.
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:32 PM
 
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This ain't Facebook ya know.
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:38 PM
 
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Yeah... I really don't like to air my dirty laundry.
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:44 PM
 
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Let's not forget all the perfectly perfect posters who chime in with holier-than-thou judgment, as though they have never lied, been jealous, or tempted in all their lives. They are flawless, and can't understand how anyone could ever demonstrate anything less than perfection.
I'm most certainly *not* perfect, although I sometimes wish we as human beings had the capacity to be perfect (which sadly we do not, even if we want to be) Although, it is true that I never have been "jealous" thus far in my life, also
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Old 11-07-2011, 06:57 PM
 
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Women's magazines used to have something like that---a he said, she said article, with a marriage counselor then weighing in on whether the marriage could be saved.

At the risk of sounding arrogant, I actually think I can almost always understand where the other person is coming from when I have a problem/concern/disagreement with someone else. I'm apt to just post my side, but the psych major in me does like analyzing what might be compelling the other person to do what they do---so maybe in the future, I will post more about what might be motivating the other person.
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Old 11-07-2011, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Didn't we have something like that happen a few years back, someone was posting and then the spouse came on board about a year later and found the thread (or I guess it could have all been made up). Where's the vets on here, anyone remember?
Oh, yeah, there's been quite a bit of drama of this nature going on. Heck, Pikantari should remember her psycho posting here under her moniker! Freaked us out so much , we were trying to save her in real life!
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Old 11-07-2011, 10:49 PM
 
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oh, yeah, there's been quite a bit of drama of this nature going on. Heck, pikantari should remember her psycho posting here under her moniker!:d freaked us out so much , we were trying to save her in real life!
omg!
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Old 11-08-2011, 06:07 AM
 
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Well if we did that, then CD would have to charge for couples counseling. I write a letter out to the world about how it drives me crazy when I don't understand what "I'm not ready means" and then he turns around and explains it.

Sounds an awful lot like therapy to me...
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Old 11-08-2011, 07:26 AM
 
Location: Europe, in the Land of the mean
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What psycho posting, sierra ?
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Old 11-08-2011, 07:54 AM
 
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What psycho posting, sierra ?
That was years ago. Somebody she was involved with. It's not like he hijacked the account... They were together and she knew he was using it.
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