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I texted her, and she said she needs space and it has nothing to do with not wanting to see me anymore.
ugh, I feel so stupid. I will CERTAINLY not contact her ever again. I will wait for her to do so.
I quess you're feeling rejected.
Shes going to move a relationship along at her speed or shes letting you down gently and would rather stay in the friends zone. Time will tell soon enough. Let it go.
-She couldn't make it, texted me apologizing, moved 2nd date to Thurs
-SHE kissed ME on 2nd date
-Everything in these two dates was great: laughs, chemistry, were both incredible; talked about having a joint bday party in December etc; made plans for Monday (this week)
-Texted her Monday about getting together
-All of a sudden she goes cold, "Cant meet today, have a meeting"
-Haven't heard from her since then (which was Monday); although we are still friends on FB, and she liked my status yesterday, so she hasn't COMPLETELY cut off contact
What the hell? I'm close to giving up on dating completely.
I think either she is mad that you made HER kiss you or you are a bad kisser. The kissing is your job Bro. You make that move. Since you made it sound like she had to do that is not a good thing.
Something tells me she is just not feeling the vibe you are feeling.
I think either she is mad that you made HER kiss you or you are a bad kisser. The kissing is your job Bro. You make that move. Since you made it sound like she had to do that is not a good thing.
Something tells me she is just not feeling the vibe you are feeling.
It may not matter who made the first move. Women want to feel a spark of some kind and perhaps it simply wasn't there.
Who makes plans to have a joint birthday party on the 2nd date? Did you suggest this? If so, wrong move if you didn't want to appear clingy.
It's unfair for you to call her "cold" just because she wasn't at your disposal 24/7. Realize most people don't live their life around someone they've only met twice.
Sounds like you had alot of expecations for such a brief encounter and set yourself up to fail. If you really like her, give her space but don't stop living your life and seeking out other potential dates.
Sounds like you had alot of expecations for such a brief encounter and set yourself up to fail. If you really like her, give her space but don't stop living your life and seeking out other potential dates.
That's what I'm hoping to do.
If I give her space, is there a chance I can salvage this?
If I give her space, is there a chance I can salvage this?
Sure, but remember it's not in a shambles, it's dating 101. Over eagerness is a turn-off for most, so learn to relax and take things at a slower pace......you'll live longer!
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So you haven't heard from her in three days and you think she's "gone cold" ?
My God, when will people ever learn.
To put it as simply as I can.
STOP TEXTING HER !
STOP TAKING FACEBOOK AS A REFLECTION OF REAL LIFE !!
CALL HER IF YOU'RE WORRIED !
YOU CANNOT READ SOMEBODY'S INTENTIONS THROUGH SOME WORDS ON A SCREEN, AND IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY USING SUCH METHODS !
I mean, dude, you've only met her twice, you don't own her or anything.
There are no rules to dating, no matter what anyone may tell you. If you dig each other, it'll happen. If you don't, it won't.
If you try to apply "rules" to a dating situation, then you run the risk of it blowing up in your face.
Hell, I've had relationships when we'd not see each other for a month in the early days, and would only talk once a week or so. Things get more intense as love blossoms.
I think you need to relax a bit.
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