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I keep wondering, why do I want a girlfriend so badly? Aside from the fact that I've never had one & I'm curious about what it's like.....I think it just seems nice & it's an idea that really appeals to me. A girl that likes me and enjoys spending time with me? Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside just thinking of that.
Sexually, it's almost tangential: I can get sex other ways via drunken hookups, CraigsList trannies & worse comes to worse, prostitutes. But a RELATIONSHIP? That's something you have to earn. Someone who likes you and whom you like in return? Not common at all.
It pains me when others seemingly get what I want so easily and then throw it away by cheating and being "less than there"; but things happen for a reason, I guess. Maybe I'll get a chance someday.
Why do you want a significant other? Or NOT want one, if that is the case?
Hmm I assume a boyfriend would be nice to experience and see for myself how I'd be in a relationship. I'd like to share a special bond with someone, have someone to cuddle with. I am constantly around my family and it would be refreshing to spend my time with someone else..
I'm in no way looking! I have a 4 country trip planned this summer, i'll be damned if I let a relationship get in the way of that!! On top of that, I'm moving across the country in the fall.
A girl that likes me and enjoys spending time with me? Makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside just thinking of that.
Indeed, that is why many people enjoy being in a relationship. There's nothing wrong with that. Companionship is a wonderful thing. I hope 2012 brings you what you seek!
Maybe you want a girlfriend TOO badly, Soviet.
It's kinda like with pregnancy: when couple try too hard - nothing happen, when they relax and give it a time, it happen right away!
So, relax, and in a meantime ask yourself how come that you can't find the right one.
Obama didn't win the election by 'relaxing'... is all I'm saying.
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