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I see a very nice looking gal just about everyday as I am leaving work, she works in another department, I don't know what her ethnic background is but she is not black nor is she white...........let's just call her HOT. She looks great in jeans. Kind of wide and hippy. I make sure I slow down when I see her so I can walk behind her.
Anyway, I see her "looking my way" very often and it leads me to ask--- ladies, just say something. Stop being so bashful. You might miss out on MR.Right.
Even if all you say is "hi" like some cute innocent Catholic school girl(are they innocent?).
Every time I try to look her in the eyes, she shy's away with this little smile on her face. It's kind of cute. I like our "relationship". It's fun and cute. We've been doing this for about a year now.
So back to the question,ladies why do you say something?
Wouldn't hurt if you initiate a quick chat either, or give her a clear sign that you want her to do so. She is just being careful, and maybe a bit timid.
It is obvious that you are interested. Any conversation will do. That's why they call it small talk. You would probably be surprised at how you both don't stop talking once someone says something. At least you will know, right?
Maybe is not OK to approach guys in her culture? And also, why haven't you done something about it other than staring at her butt? Aren't men supposed to be the "chasers"?
Maybe is not OK to approach guys in her culture? And also, why haven't you done something about it other than staring at her butt? Aren't men supposed to be the "chasers"?
Ron should do the basketball "illegal pick" on her.
If she looks away every time you try to make eye contact, it might be more than shyness. She may be engaged or have a rule against inter-office dating. In any case, I'd proceed with caution. You have a lot to lose by making an unwanted overture at work.
I wouldn't do that at work. Not until he has a normal conversation with her to make sure she is intersted and he isn't misreadng signals.
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