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Old 12-23-2009, 08:12 AM
 
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I've seen it to many times to count. Yesturday at work was the most recent event.

As many of you know, I manage a men's shelter and VERY OFTEN, we'll get people that just show up with all kinds of great donations( god bless them).

Yesterday, to very stunning looking women walked in, they looked to be in their (HOT) 40's.

All of a sudden one of my coworkers, a 50 year old man, started acting goofy as hell when the ladies started to talk to us about where they were from and the reasons for donating the food.

I was becoming boiling hot inside. I said to myself, "what is it about attractive women that causes A LOT of guys to totally lose their composer?" Sure, I admit the ladies were very sharp and had a look of refinement, they exuded great taste in their attire.

But, never in my adult years(25 and over) have I acted like a total child in front of women, specifically attractive women, like I see so many guys do.

Do they know that, that is rarely if ever attractive to women? I guess not.

Ladies and Gents on CD.........let's get this started. What is the problem with so many guys that behave like that?



Ron
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Old 12-23-2009, 08:15 AM
 
Location: The Jar
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I've seen it to many times to count. Yesturday at work was the most recent event.

As many of you know, I manage a men's shelter and VERY OFTEN, we'll get people that just show up with all kinds of great donations( god bless them).

Yesterday, to very stunning looking women walked in, they looked to be in their (HOT) 40's.

All of a sudden one of my coworkers, a 50 year old man, started acting goofy as hell when the ladies started to talk to us about where they were from and the reasons for donating the food.

I was becoming boiling hot inside. I said to myself, "what is it about attractive women that causes A LOT of guys to totally lose their composer?" Sure, I admit the ladies were very sharp and had a look of refinement, they exuded great taste in their attire.

But, never in my adult years(25 and over) have I acted like a total child in front of women, specifically attractive women, like I see so many guys do.

Do they know that, that is rarely if ever attractive to women? I guess not.

Ladies and Gents on CD.........let's get this started. What is the problem with so many guys that behave like that?



Ron
Well Ron, it's a combo of nerves and excitement.
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Old 12-23-2009, 08:16 AM
 
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You told us what you did for a living, I guess we won't be dating you.
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Old 12-23-2009, 08:24 AM
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Ron, you're cooler than most guys.

Us dudes with no skill in dealing with women can't help ourselves when a hot lady such as the two you described walks in.

I can't say I turn into a blubbering schoolboy in the above situation. I just kinda shut down so I don't.
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Old 12-23-2009, 09:45 AM
 
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Attractive women know that men are going to act a little stupid upon first meeting, and tend not to hold it against them as long as they pull themselves together by the next chat.
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Old 12-23-2009, 09:50 AM
 
Location: back in Boston
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"what is it about attractive women that causes A LOT of guys to totally lose their composer?"
Were these guys musicians?

Sorry,couldn't resist.
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Old 12-23-2009, 09:57 AM
 
Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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Funny thing here is that they probably couldn't care less what anyone thought and they were in heaven momentarily......

Relax, you'll be just fine
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Old 12-23-2009, 09:58 AM
 
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Funny thing here is that they probably couldn't care less what anyone thought and they were in heaven momentarily......

Relax, you'll be just fine
How's they and who's you'll?
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Old 12-23-2009, 09:59 AM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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I'm the same way around a man I find attractive so it goes both ways. I start blushing and fumbling around and can't look him in the eye. It's pathetic. I wish I were more composed about that stuff. The more I try to calm down the redder I get.
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Old 12-23-2009, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I've seen it to many times to count. Yesturday at work was the most recent event.

As many of you know, I manage a men's shelter and VERY OFTEN, we'll get people that just show up with all kinds of great donations( god bless them).

Yesterday, to very stunning looking women walked in, they looked to be in their (HOT) 40's.

All of a sudden one of my coworkers, a 50 year old man, started acting goofy as hell when the ladies started to talk to us about where they were from and the reasons for donating the food.

I was becoming boiling hot inside. I said to myself, "what is it about attractive women that causes A LOT of guys to totally lose their composer?" Sure, I admit the ladies were very sharp and had a look of refinement, they exuded great taste in their attire.

But, never in my adult years(25 and over) have I acted like a total child in front of women, specifically attractive women, like I see so many guys do.

Do they know that, that is rarely if ever attractive to women? I guess not.

Ladies and Gents on CD.........let's get this started. What is the problem with so many guys that behave like that?



Ron
It's the power of the penis, Ron.
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