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The fact that you two would even consider bringing yet another child into the mix, when you aren't committed to the 3 stepkids you already have and are thinking of leaving and divorcing, shows a lot of denial and selfishness and general cluelessness.
Deal with what is on your plate now and insist that your wife work things out with each babydaddy to find good solutions. What does each babydaddy want? Custody? Visitation? Nothing? It doesn't have to go through the court system, you know.
So Ur saying a woman that has kids should never remarry or ever hope for a better life? And if a man that marries this woman should never want kids of his own???? I'm perplexed at the dbl standards
So Ur saying a woman that has kids should never remarry or ever hope for a better life? And if a man that marries this woman should never want kids of his own???? I'm perplexed at the dbl standards
What's being said is you are digging through trash to find lunch when there are plenty of resturants all around you.
What's being said is you are digging through trash to find lunch when there are plenty of resturants all around you.
It's amazing the boldness people have online, u just called my wife trash, all on Ur perception and view of dbl standards. I never asked what anyone felt or thought about MY WIFES! Choices in life
It's amazing the boldness people have online, u just called my wife trash, all on Ur perception and view of dbl standards. I never asked what anyone felt or thought about MY WIFES! Choices in life
I know you weren't directing the comment at me, however...
When you started this thread, you by default brought your wife's choices into the discussion. She has 3 different children by 3 different men, and is now married to a different man entirely.
I'm not saying you don't love her, or that she doesn't love you. And I'm not saying she's a horrible person. However, it's obvious that she has made some bad choices that have led to some difficult consequences.
So the bottom line is this: Do you want to stay married to this lady?
I am sure that many of us, myself included, havegotten into relationships that were a mistake. You can live with that mistake as it gets worse or you can cut your losses. For my own part, I am telling you what you need to hear to make the tough choice, acknowledge your mistake and take your medicine. Life does not have to be this hard. she chose the path that you are now struggling with. you did not. Its like you got into a car with a drunk driver. You should not have gotten in the first place, but you do not have to drive to Timbuktu with her. Get out now while you can.
Exactly how long did you know this woman before you married her? And you are considering leaving with her while at the same time you are trying to have another baby with her? You need to get your head screwed on straight.
Exactly how long did you know this woman before you married her? And you are considering leaving with her while at the same time you are trying to have another baby with her? You need to get your head screwed on straight.
I think he likes her a lot, but he doesn't like all the drama but those two things come together and he's having trouble blending those things.
I think he likes her a lot, but he doesn't like all the drama but those two things come together and he's having trouble blending those things.
Those are things to consider before you marry someone, though, not after. When you marry someone - you are saying that you are willing to deal with the other person's drama together. These are things to figure out before you marry someone. Liking someone a lot isn't enough to sustain a marriage - especially when you have children involved. I wonder how old he his, how old she is, and how long they knew each other before they decided that they were ready to get married.
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